So, now you both know how he reacts when he was drunk. If a partner did that to me sober, I wouldn't put up with it. However, alcohol takes a certain amount of our self control away, and often we don't know how much until it's too late. So if I were in this situation, I would give him the option to rectify the situation - i.e. don't get so drunk that he ends up acting like this. Everyone can make a mistake, but if it happens again there's no excuse, and I wouldn't stand for it.