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Telling her you love her for the first time?
How do you go about this without making her feel awkward
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Reply 1
Say it like you mean it and while you're both doing something you both really enjoy doing.
Not just randomly as soon as you see her or after your first date!
Not just randomly as soon as you see her or after your first date!
Reply 2
If you think it's going to make her feel awkward, why are you saying it? I'd keep quiet about it until you think it's going to feel right.
Reply 3
The Guru
Say it like you mean it and while you're both doing something you both really enjoy doing.
Not just randomly as soon as you see her or after your first date!
Not just randomly as soon as you see her or after your first date!
First time I told my boyfriend I loved him face-to-face I just stared into his eyes, told him honestly and it didn't feel awkward one bit
you'll know when it's time to say it because you don't have to plan it or think about it - but good luck Reply 4
Oh yeah and going out with her first usually helps too lol
Reply 5
if you're scared to say it, show it. and in the process, make her love you.
Reply 6
Xx Tomásíona - Mháire xX
First time I told my boyfriend I loved him face-to-face I just stared into his eyes, told him honestly and it didn't feel awkward one bit you'll know when it's time to say it because you don't have to plan it or think about it - but good luck
you'll know when it's time to say it because you don't have to plan it or think about it - but good luck Eh? I'm not the one asking the question hahaha
Reply 7
10
just say it, who cares about making her feel awkward.
awkwardness is fun. such an unnecessary worry.
awkwardness is fun. such an unnecessary worry.
Reply 8
I've been going out with her for about 3 months now and I still really cant get over her. I know it wont make her feel awkward but still, she'll think I've said the 'magic word' now and stuff.
Reply 9
The Guru
Eh? I'm not the one asking the question hahaha
yeah I know but your post made sense about doing something you enjoy etc...so I just made an example from it
Reply 10
Anonymous
I've been going out with her for about 3 months now and I still really cant get over her. I know it wont make her feel awkward but still, she'll think I've said the 'magic word' now and stuff.
Sorry can't get over her? Oh, you mean you can't get enough of her?
Reply 11
ph9
just say it, who cares about making her feel awkward.
awkwardness is fun. such an unnecessary worry.
awkwardness is fun. such an unnecessary worry.
That's not what you were saying at 3am lol
Reply 12
Yeah, Can't get enough. As in I still feel that heavy amount of attraction for her even though we see each other everyday for a long period of time. I just want to tell her I love her so bad because she still thinks I dont (and this attracts her towards me because she wonders why, so I just play along.) but I really want to tell her I do now, because I truly do.
Reply 13
10
Princess_Peach
That's not what you were saying at 3am lol
lol that's a WHOLE different story. mine's like... stalkage/infatuation. if i actually had somebody to say "i love you" to, i so would, despite potential awkwardness.
Reply 14
ph9
lol that's a WHOLE different story. mine's like... stalkage/infatuation. if i actually had somebody to say "i love you" to, i so would, despite potential awkwardness.
I'm not asking for anything else but for you to tell me HOW to say it. Like in what situation would you say it? Over dinner? Randomly? Kiss her and then say it? How?
Reply 15
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Anonymous
I'm not asking for anything else but for you to tell me HOW to say it. Like in what situation would you say it? Over dinner? Randomly? Kiss her and then say it? How?
i may not give you the reply you want since i promote awkwardness in these situations; my philosophy is that if you can't avoid le awkwardness, why try. just say it when it feels right. next time you see her, it'll probably be all you'll think about. eventually it'll escape your mouth and wahey.
i think randomly is what i mean. go for it
Reply 16
randomnly 100%! my x-boyf said it when we where laughing incontrollably at my house n it was just the perfect moment! Its not good when its all pre-meditated it puts to much presure on it!
Reply 17
my bf whispered it in my ear randomly when we were out at some bar drinking
Reply 18
10
When you're both feeling particularly loved up? My gf first said it to me when we'd been out together with friends, and we were both a little drunk and very happy, a bit giggly. It wasn't premeditated, mind.
Don't lead up to it like some sort of marriage proposal. Just say it when she does something particularly adorable (perhaps not in the middle of a bj)
Don't lead up to it like some sort of marriage proposal. Just say it when she does something particularly adorable (perhaps not in the middle of a bj)
Reply 19
Mercer
Just say it when she does something particularly adorable (perhaps not in the middle of a bj)
Yea, you dont want to interrupt the process!
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