Found out my boyfriend's weird fetish...

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I've been with my boyfriend for two years, we've lived together for one year.

The sex has always been ok (quite ordinary) in a lot of ways he's too reserved in 'that way' for me. However, over the last nine months he suddenly stopped and claimed he had a problem called 'performance anxiety'. I tried to be understanding and asked what I could do but it is still only once every 3-4 months.

I know it is wrong but I was really worried that he might be secretly gay or something else. So I snooped on his computer. I found out a few things that have really worried me.

1) he has an obsession for women with shaved heads. I know it's an obsession because he looks at the same pages every day.

2) he looks at several profiles of women in our own city who have a shaved head or extremely short hair. Some are on his friends list, some are not. Again, every day.

3) he looks at one of his female friend's profile every single day. This woman is very beautiful and they obviously had a close friendship..

he has admitted he is sexually attracted to women with shaved heads so I know he is looking for a sexual reason. I asked about the women in our city and what would happen if he crossed paths with them, he said nothing, he's just looking. But it is every single day!! I feel so hurt and like I'm a second choice. Am I overreacting? Am I wrong to be upset?
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Shave your head.
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Even if it's a fetish, looking everyday is just... weird.
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(Original post by Anonymous)
I've been with my boyfriend for two years, we've lived together for one year.

The sex has always been ok (quite ordinary) in a lot of ways he's too reserved in 'that way' for me. However, over the last nine months he suddenly stopped and claimed he had a problem called 'performance anxiety'. I tried to be understanding and asked what I could do but it is still only once every 3-4 months.

I know it is wrong but I was really worried that he might be secretly gay or something else. So I snooped on his computer. I found out a few things that have really worried me.

1) he has an obsession for women with shaved heads. I know it's an obsession because he looks at the same pages every day.

2) he looks at several profiles of women in our own city who have a shaved head or extremely short hair. Some are on his friends list, some are not. Again, every day.

3) he looks at one of his female friend's profile every single day. This woman is very beautiful and they obviously had a close friendship..

he has admitted he is sexually attracted to women with shaved heads so I know he is looking for a sexual reason. I asked about the women in our city and what would happen if he crossed paths with them, he said nothing, he's just looking. But it is every single day!! I feel so hurt and like I'm a second choice. Am I overreacting? Am I wrong to be upset?
That's weird, make him sit down and talk about it
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Shave your head.
Only option I'm afraid. Just go to the hairdresser and ask for a "Jade Goody".
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buy a bald cap and wear it in bed hahaha
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I didn't even realise that a fetish for shaved heads was a thing.

But if he's chosen YOU over these girls then that counts for something doesn't it?
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That's extremely odd behaviour. I hate to say it but it sounds like the two of you aren't sexually compatible, especially if you've not experienced having really good sex with him.

How is your relationship outside of your sex life? May I ask?
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Shave your head.
Haha you are such a joker:awesome::awesome:

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Only option I'm afraid. Just go to the hairdresser and ask for a "Jade Goody".

She had cancer though. Britney Spears might have been a better choice.
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Only option I'm afraid. Just go to the hairdresser and ask for a "Jade Goody".
The name rings a bell, but I can't quite put my finger on it.
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