this lad in school got flirting with me, i flirted back. were both 16. well weve gotten as far as snogging. last friday after we snogged for the first time, i gave him my home number, he said he wanted to see me on saturday, and that hell ring to arrange things. he never rang. today he said that he couldnt get through on the phone. so today i gave him my mobile number. but then we got kissing again, and he tried to take my shirt off which i thought was going a bit too far so i kinda stopped it. then he said ' dont tell anyone about this, i dont want anyone knowing'.
the thing is i want to go out with him but i think he wants me to go further with him, i dont think he wants a long term relationship with me. its like all wants me for is snogging. im not falling for him, im fine with snogging, but today kinda shocked me when he put his hand up my shirt.
do you reckon hes using me?