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I am gay man with no female friends.Women tire me

So contrary to the urban legend that wants gay men being very close to female friends I have none.Growing up and as I started coming out I noticed that I could not sustain meaningful friendships with females.Most of my friends are men and I find it way easier to relate with them despite my sexual orientation which is usually different from most of my male friends.

It seems that girls tire me or bore me for some reason.I freak out very easily with female expectations about me.Once they know I am gay (its not obvious-really str8acting dude here) most of the girls I know expect me to be their confidant or some sh*t like that.I have zero interest in stereotypical female activities and at times I find it difficult to even sustain simple conversations with them.On top of that the fact that I can socialise very easily with men puts me on the spot since often some guys believe that since I am gay I could hook em up easily with a girl.That's also tiring.

The past couple of years this realisation has started to bug me somewhat.Do I have a problem with women?Why do I constantly feel tired and bored of them?Is it maybe an insecurity I have?
Your not attracted to them, it's like having a ugly friend you just
Don't want to be next to them
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Original post by Marshall Taylor
Your not attracted to them, it's like having a ugly friend you just
Don't want to be next to them


so what?I am not attracted to most of my male friends either but I enjoy hanging out with them and doing activities.
You have no interest in stereotypical female hobbies, find a female that isn't stereotypical. You don't have to be friends with females


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Damn i have the same problem and it is getting really annoying. Im still in the coming out phase and havent dated a man, yet i slowly do start to accept my nature.I'm attractive and often get looked at by girls. When they give me signs or even look at me, i get insecure, oncomfortable or even look unconciously angry at them. I feel like women digust me and i hate it about myself. I get more and more disappointed and hateful which is fking retarted.In the past i got rejected all the time by women which made me pretty mad. Now i know im just gay and couldnt give them what they wanted from a guy. Still i feel all these negative emotions around and about girls. What should i do?

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