just dont get it

Question really, do women find men in relationships more attractive?

.. it seems a really stupid question and it isnt one id normally ask.. let me explain.
I was in a relationship for 6 years with my fiance before coming to uni, and I was always faithful but plenty of women were interested in me or gave me their numbers, now that im not with her and in uni... no-one seems interested... im not actually going out and flirting madly but i wasnt before either... im a pretty down to earth guy and just like to chat and have a good convo, in other words .. im not doing anything different then last time, so why does no-one seem interested?

Reply 1

ashy

possibly, not being a woman I couldn't tell you! "forbidden fruit" and all?

Reply 2

fairycakes

hmm, personally i don't. i think maybe it's cos i absolutely despise cheatin so soemthingo in my head says no he's taken and i make myself not feel anything towards him. it's probably very dependant on the person.
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Reply 3

Emerald

I dunno about giving you their numbers as thats kinda wrong but from experience its always easier to flirt with those who are taken as you both know that nothings gonna come of it and it makes you both feel good.Now that you're single a girl will probably only flirt with you if she's genuinely inetersted in you

Reply 4

squigaletta

It is harder to pull at uni anyway, coz there are so many young people in the same place it can be a lot different to your home environment where it is much easier to get noticed.

Reply 5

Zoecb

Maybe their desirability explains why they're already in a relationship... it's that way around...

The question is, do women find that more attractive men are already in relationships? The answer is yes. They're already bloody taken aren't they.

Reply 6

Dragon24

Probably cos they feel as though because you are in a relationship you have something good about you and that having a relationship equals success. You always want what you can't have, don't look for love cos you won't get it - let it come naturally when you least expect it.