I cant be around her anymore

I'm in love. Either that or I'll explain it the hard way...

I met this girl way back in September when school started and I completely fell for her, she wasn't wearing any make-up at all and seemed like a tomboy but she was just so different. Since that day I've tried to get closer to her and become friends then try and move it to a relationship...

and I think about her 24/7. From the day I met her to this day.

Something has come up and I need to get over her...and fast. I cant continue being her friend because I know that I wont be able to get over her that way so should I just stop hanging around with her and stuff? Would this help me get over her?

I really cannot get her off my head, but I know we can never have a relationship. :frown:

Reply 1

Talya

16

How do you know you can't have a relationship with her?

Reply 2

Anonymous #1

OP

Talya

How do you know you can't have a relationship with her?

Do you really have to know? It makes me pretty sad to think about it. :frown:

Reply 3

ßlαcksωαn

17

Time, is the only cure

Reply 4

username47781

20

Does she have a different religious/cultural background?

Reply 5

Anthonyjm71

9

I know what you mean sometimes no matter how much you want her she does feel the same or take you seriiously sometimes

Reply 6

lil one

2

From experience, I really think the only way you can truly get over someone, is if you see their faults and stuff. Because the infatuation only grows if you stay away from her.
Goodluck x

Reply 7

Anonymous #1

OP

blackswan

Time, is the only cure

I've given it months now...surely my feelings should have disappeared by now? :frown:

But I really need to stop being her friend, either that or I need to tell her my feelings for her and wait for her to drift away, but then I'd end up being hurt :frown:

Reply 8

username47781

20

Why should you stop being her friend, does she already have a boyfriend?

Reply 9

Milli

11

The best thing is to try and avoid her.

Reply 10

Llamaaa

15

can you explain why you can't be around her- what has happened that has changed everything so that you can't even be friends?

Reply 11

Anonymous #1

OP

I really dont understand why me explaining why I cant be around her anymore would help.

I really dont want to say, but no she hasnt got a boyfriend or a different religion. I just know that I cant be with her, its no big deal...

Reply 12

Anonymous #1

OP

and I never said we couldnt be friends, although that probably is the best option.

I said it would help me to get away from her as maybe that would help me fall out of love with her again.

Bah if this is too confusing just leave me to work it all out alone :frown:

Reply 13

FoeGeddaBowDeet

you need to say because otherwise nobody can understand the problem.

Reply 14

Talya

16

Anonymous

I just know that I cant be with her, its no big deal...

No offence, but it could be something silly (that seems big to you) that you can overcome, that is why we ask. Then maybe we can give you advice on how you CAN be with her :smile:

Reply 15

Anthonyjm71

9

Talya

No offence, but it could be something silly (that seems big to you) that you can overcome, that is why we ask. Then maybe we can give you advice on how you CAN be with her :smile:

agree yes exactly :smile:

Reply 16

username47781

20

Not the same guy who lied about having a medical condition is it :eek:

hopefully not

Reply 17

Milli

11

Anonymous

and I never said we couldnt be friends, although that probably is the best option.

I said it would help me to get away from her as maybe that would help me fall out of love with her again.

Bah if this is too confusing just leave me to work it all out alone :frown:

Does she come to your college/school/work place?