You will find someone but you need to either
a) Make yourself a more valuable person
b) Decrease the offer that you are willing to accept
For many it's easier to understand this in terms of a business transaction.
Watch 'Coach Corey Wayne' videos on youtube, he will help you to understand camouflaged and underlying signals, both that you give and receive. You can not do this, but as he says, this stuff only comes perfectly naturally to 3% of men. Hence his book 'The 3% Man' which I am not arsed to read.