Is this what guys normally do?

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bittr n swt

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Original post by boro_andy

Wouldn't say that for sure. Some guys are just over-baring.

I guess so but those guys need to chill

Reply 21

Anonymous #1

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Original post by boro_andy

No problem at all.

Pardon my curiosity, but what is your reasoning for wanting to carry on the relationship? I assume then, that when he's not being suggestive, that he's actually ok generally?

Yes, he's ok generally. I do enjoy talking to him. He just occasionally gets suggestive. Sorry, didn't mean to make him out to be someone negative, I was just wondering if most guys do what he does without a hidden agenda

Reply 22

boro_andy

Original post by bittr n swt

I guess so but those guys need to chill

Completely agree.

We've all done it, some just don't learn from it.

Reply 23

boro_andy

Original post by Anonymous

Yes, he's ok generally. I do enjoy talking to him. He just occasionally gets suggestive. Sorry, didn't mean to make him out to be someone negative, I was just wondering if most guys do what he does without a hidden agenda

No need to apologise! Merely curious!

As you've said, see how you go, re-enforce your boundaries if required. Job jobbed.

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Original post by bittr n swt

He's definitely inexperienced with girls, he's way too full on and he's texting loads. It's abnormal and I would get out because it will sound like a suffocating relationship

But we are not in a relationship, just friends. I wouldn't mind texting my girl mates everyday so I don't mind texting him either, in fact I do enjoy our conversations. I treat everyone the same but maybe that's not a good thing?

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Anonymous #1

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Original post by boro_andy

No need to apologise! Merely curious!

As you've said, see how you go, re-enforce your boundaries if required. Job jobbed.

Lol. Thanks again, you come across as a really nice person. Appreciate your advice :smile:

Reply 26

boro_andy

Anytime.

Stop flirting, we're platonic :wink:

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Anonymous #1

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Original post by boro_andy

Anytime.

Stop flirting, we're platonic :wink:

Oops, my bad :wink:

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boro_andy

Original post by Anonymous

Oops, my bad :wink:

See now I think really you've led him on all along....just kidding :biggrin:

Reply 29

bittr n swt

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Original post by Anonymous

But we are not in a relationship, just friends. I wouldn't mind texting my girl mates everyday so I don't mind texting him either, in fact I do enjoy our conversations. I treat everyone the same but maybe that's not a good thing?