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I'm debating whether to tell the girl I've been seeing that I've been anxious about going further with her physically because given I'm a virgin, I'm going to finish quickly. She knows I'm a virgin (and is sexually experienced herself), and so must expect that I will. I think it's an irrational fear because the sooner I start, the sooner I'll get better, so waiting is just hindering the situation.

We're working with some distance (but not overwhelming), so I've only spent two weekends at her place and haven't "gone the distance" yet. I'm more than ready too though; it's getting hard to ignore so many boners. Should I bother explaining my anxiety, or should I simply let nature take its course?
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I think it might help to communicate it to her to ease your anxiety. As you said, she probably will expect it to be the case anyway, but hearing that from her might just do that bit to reassure you. And if you are less anxious, you are more likely to have a better time! Communication is definitely key for a good sexual relationship.
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Just tell her, she'll be understanding, everyone goes through this.

Although you might find that when you first start getting sexual, nothing is as quick as your own vice like jack hammer. That's just my experience anyway, good day. :hat:
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