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My boyfriend is dying of cancer. Not sure how to act?

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I don't feel like many read my op properly
"There is nothing that can be done to cure it" (..or rather, was)
Thank you all for your advice, regardless, I really did appreciate it.
xx

I'm so sorry
What decision did you make ? And I hope you don't mind me asking but had he passed on

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vanillapod

Deal with the situation. Deal with your feelings and be there for him (if you truly care for him).

You think about your 'options' later - that's really besides the point whether he's dying or not. You need to do what your morals tell you. I think you 'trying to pull' is a horrific way of 'dealing' with the situation and it is acting unfaithfully - again, whether he's dying or not.

Deal with this in healthier ways. Maybe talk to your parents if they're understanding about having relationships? I think they'd want to know as this is a pretty big deal.

EDIT: Sorry this seems old. By the use of the past tense, I guess I'm fearing the worst. If that's the case, my prayers are with him and all those who knew him ;3 If not, I'm sorry I must've misread something! Prayers with you all nonetheless!