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My ex described me in a text to a friend as an "ABSOLUTE HOTTIE". However, when he went away to uni, he ended it after only a few weeks and got together with someone I consider to be more attractive.

Now he's asked to meet up and I'm convinced he's going to find me unattractive. Will this be the case?
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Do you know why he wants to meet up?
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Why does it matter? Do you want to get back together with this guy who left you and replaced you so abruptly?
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(Original post by C_tinie_D)
Do you know why he wants to meet up?
No, came out of the blue.
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Why does it matter? Do you want to get back together with this guy who left you and replaced you so abruptly?
I'd kill to be back together with him, although know that it's not possible. I suppose I just don't want to validate his decision by not living up to expectations/memory.
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Doubt it. He thinks you're hot, his words not mine.

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Doubt it. He thinks you're hot, his words not mine.

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I suppose the fear arises from the fact that he said this before we started dating, and found someone I think is better so quickly. It makes me wonder whether I will pale in comparison now.
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I suppose the fear arises from the fact that he said this before we started dating, and found someone I think is better so quickly. It makes me wonder whether I will pale in comparison now.
It's difficult for me to comment, because I don't know what you or his new girl look like. But you shouldn't compare yourself to her, I understand if it's a niggling thought in the back of your mind but it's not worth paying too much attention to maybe you're not giving yourself enough credit, for all we know you may be considerably better looking than his new girl. So it could just be in your head. It's not a beauty contest anyway.
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WOW You got left for someone else, and now he wants to come back to you and you're letting him, women...
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I'd kill to be back together with him, although know that it's not possible. I suppose I just don't want to validate his decision by not living up to expectations/memory.
What a strange thing to say.
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What a strange thing to say.

How so?
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I'd kill to be back together with him, although know that it's not possible. I suppose I just don't want to validate his decision by not living up to expectations/memory.
You probably have thousands of reason to get back with him but i just don't see why because he replaced you just weeks after he left for uni. What kind of love is that? My self-respect would be hurt if i would kill just to get back with him. He was probably with you because you were hot and...relationship based on appearances is just a short lived happiness.
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How so?
See above and I doubt you'd understand my perspective.
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Lol so what did the other girl meet someone else and decide to drop him out? Wouldn't even give him the time of day.
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