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do you think these signs mean he likes me?

okay ive tried googling similar threads but it didnt come up with anything.

i met this guy over a month ago and ive spoken to him everyday since then. havent been able to see him since though!he always starts convos with me on msn and we get on really well. he has told a mutual friend he thinks i am hot (which leads me to think he really doesnt have 20:20 vision) and he does actually do stuff i tell him which im sure he wouldnt if someone else asked him.
(lol hm i feel really stupid asking people on here especially because i cant give much other detail and also how the hell would you lot know considering you dont know neither me or him!)
but just generally what are the signs whether someone likes you more than a friend? thanx

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Reply 1

What on msn? lol I take it you have met this guy for real?

Reply 2

Anonymous
okay ive tried googling similar threads but it didnt come up with anything.

i met this guy over a month ago and ive spoken to him everyday since then. havent been able to see him since though!he always starts convos with me on msn and we get on really well. he has told a mutual friend he thinks i am hot (which leads me to think he really doesnt have 20:20 vision) and he does actually do stuff i tell him which im sure he wouldnt if someone else asked him.
(lol hm i feel really stupid asking people on here especially because i cant give much other detail and also how the hell would you lot know considering you dont know neither me or him!)
but just generally what are the signs whether someone likes you more than a friend? thanx

read back your post to yourself and pretend it was someone else typing it and then give us the answer

Reply 3

does stuff you tell him? :wink::P:
its hard to tell these kind of things without being with the person face to face. body language is a major thing.
and i didnt think many people had 20:20 visioin :s-smilie:

Reply 4

loll yes i have met this guy in person.
havent seen him since though. hopefully see him some time next weekend though cos he invited me to this gig.
i dunno because when we talk its always reallly flirty... its just i dont wanna sound too big headed or anything by being like "oh yeah he def fancies me" so im confuseddd lol.

Reply 5

dh00001
does stuff you tell him? :wink::P:
its hard to tell these kind of things without being with the person face to face. body language is a major thing.
and i didnt think many people had 20:20 visioin :s-smilie:


I'm kinda in this situation too :s-smilie: I agree that body language is important because of the subconscious element. OP, why don't you meet him and see? DO you actually know him and have you met him before?

Good luck....

P.s. he might just like you :eek: :wink:

Reply 6

Anonymous
loll yes i have met this guy in person.
havent seen him since though. hopefully see him some time next weekend though cos he invited me to this gig.
i dunno because when we talk its always reallly flirty... its just i dont wanna sound too big headed or anything by being like "oh yeah he def fancies me" so im confuseddd lol.

you have recognised there is signs so act upon them, great love and great achievement involve great risk, is a quote that springs to mind

Reply 7

yup met him at a friends 18th at the end of october :smile:

lol sorry im just so damn impateint!

Reply 8

*impatient

"great love and great achievement involve great risk"

oh dear. why do i have to take the risk :frown:

Reply 9

Anonymous
loll yes i have met this guy in person.
havent seen him since though. hopefully see him some time next weekend though cos he invited me to this gig.
i dunno because when we talk its always reallly flirty... its just i dont wanna sound too big headed or anything by being like "oh yeah he def fancies me" so im confuseddd lol.


Hmm :rolleyes: That would be a clue....unless you two are friends and it may be a friendly gesture...but try to look at this objectively :wink:

Reply 10

Anonymous
*impatient

"great love and great achievement involve great risk"

oh dear. why do i have to take the risk :frown:

because you want to go out with him

Reply 11

meet him for some reason. go and see some lights be turned on (if theyre not already) say no one will go with you or some shti and see what happense there. same goes for you justjam :P:

Reply 12

JustJam2006
Hmm :rolleyes: That would be a clue....unless you two are friends and it may be a friendly gesture...but try to look at this objectively :wink:



As an object of desire? lol :p:

Reply 13

dh00001
meet him for some reason. go and see some lights be turned on (if theyre not already) say no one will go with you or some shti and see what happense there. same goes for you justjam :P:


You know dh00001, I might just do that! Thanks :cool:

To the OP...good luck again :hugs:

Reply 14

The Guru
As an object of desire? lol :p:


Umm...:redface:

Reply 15

oops only just noticed the gig thing, damn distractions! but dont forget gigs are busy places and so conversation etc. is difficult. meet up before hand or another day as well.
go for it jusjam :smile: no worries feel free to ask if you want anything else

Reply 16

hehe ty for your replies people!


what do you think about asking to meet like a bit before? im pretty sure i like him myself otherwise i wouldnt be getting so stupid over him. lol ah now im paranoid i dont really like him and when i see him im just gonna be like oh...

justjam good luck to you too:biggrin:

Reply 17

You all bull****: YES he does.

Reply 18

dh00001
oops only just noticed the gig thing, damn distractions! but dont forget gigs are busy places and so conversation etc. is difficult. meet up before hand or another day as well.
go for it jusjam :smile: no worries feel free to ask if you want anything else


There are so many nice people on TSR?!

:tsr2:

:wink: Thanks

Reply 19

Ok, sorry, but 2 me it sounds like he blatantly fancies you. The only thing to watch out for is if you don't fancy him so much this time around (or vice versa), as if the only time you saw him was at an 18th, well probs dark and a little drunk? eh? See how it goes and have fun :wink: