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I have feelings for a guy but being intimidated by another girl

OK heres the story Im getting really close with this guy at my college hes a really nice guy and everything was going great. However theres another girl at college who has a bit of a thing for him, he doesnt have any feelings for her but she has taken a dislike to me (for obvious reasons) and i feel very threatened by her she has a reputation as a very tough kind of girl and while I really like the guy Im seeing I don't want her jealousy to cause a fight between us (i would lose lol) I know to some this problem may be quite trivial but any suggestions as to what I could do???? :confused:

Reply 1

ßlαcksωαn

17

Stuff her I say. If you like him and he likes you there's nothing some bully can do about that. And I doubt she'd kick your ass. She's just jealous that you're with the hot guy and she has no one. Don't worry about her.

Reply 2

PharmGU

well does this guy like you in the same way back? .....if so then go for it and just ignore her, she'll get over it, shes probably not jealouse cus you like this goy but probably jealous of you hence y she doesnt like you

Reply 3

username47781

20

Just don't let this girl bully you out of talking to this guy.

Reply 4

unfinished sympathy

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Anonymous

OK heres the story Im getting really close with this guy at my college hes a really nice guy and everything was going great. However theres another girl at college who has a bit of a thing for him, he doesnt have any feelings for her but she has taken a dislike to me (for obvious reasons) and i feel very threatened by her she has a reputation as a very tough kind of girl and while I really like the guy Im seeing I don't want her jealousy to cause a fight between us (i would lose lol) I know to some this problem may be quite trivial but any suggestions as to what I could do???? :confused:

well get him to protect you :p:

and dont lose out on him just becuase of her anyway! if you both like each other then there shouldnt really be a prob anyway!

Reply 5

joz12345

1

i say go 4 it with the guy if he likes you back in the same way and let him know how you feel about the girl bully etc if he likes you he will protect you

Reply 6

Anonymous #1

OP

Thanks for the advice all I think Im going to talk to him because this girl has been annoying him to and I think trying to make a move on him despite the fact she knows we are seeing each other I hate people like that I really do :frown:

Reply 7

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3

Tell him, then maybe he can talk to her and get her to back off. :smile:

Reply 8

Eb

1

Anonymous

OK heres the story Im getting really close with this guy at my college hes a really nice guy and everything was going great. However theres another girl at college who has a bit of a thing for him, he doesnt have any feelings for her but she has taken a dislike to me (for obvious reasons) and i feel very threatened by her she has a reputation as a very tough kind of girl and while I really like the guy Im seeing I don't want her jealousy to cause a fight between us (i would lose lol) I know to some this problem may be quite trivial but any suggestions as to what I could do???? :confused:

You sound nicer :hugs:

Reply 9

Phantom Phoenix

13

Anonymous

Thanks for the advice all I think Im going to talk to him because this girl has been annoying him to and I think trying to make a move on him despite the fact she knows we are seeing each other I hate people like that I really do :frown:

Me too. There's a godawful BITCH! (there, that feels better) in my halls who's fancied my boyfriend since day one and keeps flirting with him and jumping on him and stuff, even though he totally blanks her every time she does it (as much as that's possible with a whooping moron on your back).

Grrrrr, I HATE HER!!!!

But back to your problem...definitely have a word with him and make sure he knows you're pissed off. Have a moan with him about her being a pain in the bum, that always makes me feel better. :biggrin:

Reply 10

Anonymous #1

OP

Phantom Phoenix

Me too. There's a godawful BITCH! (there, that feels better) in my halls who's fancied my boyfriend since day one and keeps flirting with him and jumping on him and stuff, even though he totally blanks her every time she does it (as much as that's possible with a whooping moron on your back).

Grrrrr, I HATE HER!!!!

But back to your problem...definitely have a word with him and make sure he knows you're pissed off. Have a moan with him about her being a pain in the bum, that always makes me feel better. :biggrin:

haha thanks that made me feel a lot better actually going to talk to him tomorrow about it lol I hope it goes well

Reply 11

Phantom Phoenix

13

Glad to help :wink:

Good luck, I'm sure it'll be fine!

Reply 12

Anonymous #1

OP

Just spoke to him yesterday, he basically said he wasn't aware that her behaviour bothered me that much, that shes just a very immature girl and that he'd make everything clear to her and tell her to back off so makes me feel a lot better because he aslo said he wouldn't go near her :smile:

Reply 13

Phantom Phoenix

13

Excellent

Good for you - glad everything's worked out fine.

Reply 14

Anonymous #2

Okay, instead of starting a new thread, this is kinda on the same lines. I'm in a bit of a problem, there's this guy I like, and we get on great, I know he likes me. However I think he likes this other girl too, maybe more than me. She's a friend of mine, has a boyfriend, and is not interested in him in that way.
Should I approach him, or is it a futile exercise?
Anyone else ever in this situation?

Reply 15

Phantom Phoenix

13

Approach him, or you'll kick yourself for not at least trying :smile:

Got to be worth a shot if you know he likes you!

Reply 16

ph9

10

^ oh that's horrible :frown:

however, you say you THINK he likes her too... sometimes, boys can be weird like that. they seem as though they fancy your best friend when in actual fact it's you they're digging...

surely the fact that she has a boyfriend must put him off a little? although, no, i'm not that naive lol. i know some people still go for the taken.

Reply 17

Anonymous #2

Yeah, but can a relationship even develop if he's closer to her than he is to me?

Reply 18

Anonymous #2

You know when you are going out with someone, and they have a really close friend of the opposite sex....if anything were to happen it feels as if it would be like that....is that healthy?

Reply 19

ph9

10

if you get to know each other more, there's more chance you two will become closer. at the moment, he'll just keep getting closer to whoever else whilst you'll be faffing around

just go for it

I have feelings for a guy but being intimidated by another girl

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