Any chance I am pregnant..?

Ok, so this is probably going to sound dumb but I am the world's biggest worrier and I need my mind putting at rest. Two weeks ago I got very drunk and went back to a uni room with this boy. He fingered me and then I gave him a handjob although I don't think he came. He fingered me before I touched him, so I don't think there is any chance I'm pregnant although he went in bathroom before he fingered me, don't know whether he would have had cum on his hands or not. I got my period 5 days later anyway, it was really really heavy for the first two days and then really light for the last 3. Bit unusual for me, it's generally averagely heavy for 7 days. Well anyway, I have had some stomach and back ache since, dunno what to attribute it to. Of course if I was reading this and someone else had posted it I would think they're ridiculous for even imagining they're pregnant, but when it's you you always think the worst. There's no chance I could be pregnant is there..?

Reply 1

Phantom Phoenix

13

Really doubt it but I completely understand; my period was a couple of days late once and I panicked even though I hadn't had sex AT ALL EVER at the time lol. It's just the presence of sperm in the same bed I think; you worry that it'll magically osmose or something...

Anyways, since you got your period I wouldn't worry; when you're young your periods are still going a bit haywire and back/stomach-ache can be attributed to many things - it may even be that you've had some mild discomfort for a while, but you're just more aware of your body now so you noticed it.

As lessthanthree said, though, if you're still worrying, take a pregnancy test to be absolutely sure. Hope everything's okay for you :smile:

Reply 2

Anonymous #2

Anonymous

Ok, so this is probably going to sound dumb but I am the world's biggest worrier and I need my mind putting at rest. Two weeks ago I got very drunk and went back to a uni room with this boy. He fingered me and then I gave him a handjob although I don't think he came. He fingered me before I touched him, so I don't think there is any chance I'm pregnant although he went in bathroom before he fingered me, don't know whether he would have had cum on his hands or not. I got my period 5 days later anyway, it was really really heavy for the first two days and then really light for the last 3. Bit unusual for me, it's generally averagely heavy for 7 days. Well anyway, I have had some stomach and back ache since, dunno what to attribute it to. Of course if I was reading this and someone else had posted it I would think they're ridiculous for even imagining they're pregnant, but when it's you you always think the worst. There's no chance I could be pregnant is there..?

I had a similar similar a couple of weeks ago (and am still panicky about it!) in that in a drunken fumble I gave a guy a handjob - the difference being that he came, so I'm still really paranoid even though we didn't have full on sex :redface:

Reply 3

foxiroxi

10

If your ever worried just take a pregancy test :smile:

They don't cost much and it will put your mind at ease.

Reply 4

Toy Soldier

3

The chances of getting pregnant from any sexual activity other than penetrative vaginal sex are VERY low. The way some people go on, you'd think people getting pregnant through their hands was an everyday occurence...

Reply 5

Claire_Elizabeth

1

If you have had a period then you are not pregnant!
You need to not worry like that!

Reply 6

Anonymous #3

Claire_Elizabeth

If you have had a period then you are not pregnant!
You need to not worry like that!

Wrong! I was recnetly preganant and had an abortion, when I had the scan the told me to the day how far I was so by that worked out the date. I concived 4 days before I had a period (which made over a week further on then I first thought :frown:

) I had a period although slightly abnormal for myself but nothing I worried over, untill my next period never arrived :frown:

Reply 7

Anonymous #4

Anonymous

Ok, so this is probably going to sound dumb but I am the world's biggest worrier and I need my mind putting at rest. Two weeks ago I got very drunk and went back to a uni room with this boy. He fingered me and then I gave him a handjob although I don't think he came. He fingered me before I touched him, so I don't think there is any chance I'm pregnant although he went in bathroom before he fingered me, don't know whether he would have had cum on his hands or not. I got my period 5 days later anyway, it was really really heavy for the first two days and then really light for the last 3. Bit unusual for me, it's generally averagely heavy for 7 days. Well anyway, I have had some stomach and back ache since, dunno what to attribute it to. Of course if I was reading this and someone else had posted it I would think they're ridiculous for even imagining they're pregnant, but when it's you you always think the worst. There's no chance I could be pregnant is there..?

simple advice: get a pregnancy test done :biggrin:

Reply 8

TheConfuddledOne

10

Anonymous

Ok, so this is probably going to sound dumb but I am the world's biggest worrier and I need my mind putting at rest. Two weeks ago I got very drunk and went back to a uni room with this boy. He fingered me and then I gave him a handjob although I don't think he came. He fingered me before I touched him, so I don't think there is any chance I'm pregnant although he went in bathroom before he fingered me, don't know whether he would have had cum on his hands or not. I got my period 5 days later anyway, it was really really heavy for the first two days and then really light for the last 3. Bit unusual for me, it's generally averagely heavy for 7 days. Well anyway, I have had some stomach and back ache since, dunno what to attribute it to. Of course if I was reading this and someone else had posted it I would think they're ridiculous for even imagining they're pregnant, but when it's you you always think the worst. There's no chance I could be pregnant is there..?

If there is any chance at all, it is extremely small i'd assume. If I am incorrect, please correct me. It's more just your mind at the moment going through all the worst scenarios. As other users have already stated, OP you should make sure that you get a pregnancy test and all worries will more than likely disappear.

Reply 9

username47781

20

I highly doubt you are pregnant.

Reply 10

mc_hamster

1

Damn, I don't understand these posts about pregnancy. There is only one way you can find out the answer, do a preganancy test. Even if you had had sex we couldn't give you an answer either.

Reply 11

hannah_dru

2

I doubt you're pregnant. The only way I can think of is if he came, you touched him and then touched yourself.

Reply 12

Anonymous #5

Anonymous

Wrong! I was recnetly preganant and had an abortion, when I had the scan the told me to the day how far I was so by that worked out the date. I concived 4 days before I had a period (which made over a week further on then I first thought :frown:

) I had a period although slightly abnormal for myself but nothing I worried over, untill my next period never arrived :frown:

had you had sex or did you conceive via fingering?

to the OP, I've been through this scare too. I had strange periods but had all the symptoms. I took 4 pregnancy tests and they were all negative. My boyfriend looked into it and said that all my worrying had tricked my body into thinking that I actually was pregnant. (can't remember what they call it now....spoof pregnanct or something).

Anyway...I highly doubt that you are pregnant. Take a test to be sure though :smile:

Reply 13

Phantom Phoenix

13

False pregnancy :smile:

It's a sort of placebo effect - because you believe you're pregnant, you actually convince yourself that you are and pregnancy symptoms will manifest even though you haven't conceived.

Isn't the mind a wonderful thing? :rolleyes:

Reply 14

helpneeded-a

13

im going through this right now.
all teh symtoms...period still hasn't come. :frown:

Any chance I am pregnant..?

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