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another i fancy my friend topic.pls help tho

Hey, i know there have been a few threads like this but bare with me..
Basically i really fancy this girl i work with, and i mean really fancy! i have worked with her for about 10 months now, so ive gotten to know her pretty well. We are really good friends and go out at night (with other ppl aswel). Thing is wen we go out and wen we work together we are realy close (holding hands wen we r out etc) quite flirty in wrk aswel.
The only reason i havnt made a move so far in 10months is cos shes had a bf. however, she has now dumped him so i really wnt to tell her how i feel.

My mate (who also works with us) thinks that she likes me and shows alot of interest in me. we txt quite a bit etc and i read on a similar thread to do a high-five, but keep holding onto the hand 4 a couple of secs to let them know ur feelings, she has done this to me a few times. This all seems like good news so far to ask her out, however, recently on a night out when i went to the toilet my mate asked her what she thoght of me and she replied with "little brother" :eek: (theres only about 9,10 months between us btw). This is obviously not good news, what shall i do??? i cant stop thinking about her and i really really want to ask her out....prob is i dnt want to lose her as a friend either cos we r really good together.

What do u think my chances are?? should i change the way i flirt with her to maybe let her know my intentions more? im sure she knows by now that i fancy her, my mate told her best and girls always tlk lol
Even wen she had a bf, i felt that she liked me, i really want this to work as i think we r perfect 4 each other. I will prob end up at the uni that she is going to aswel btw, so i also dnt want to mess our friendship up so that we dnt c each other at uni, my accomodation wud be about 2 mins wlk from hers !! so tough decision, can i really wait til nxt year wen we r at uni together to make a move or will that be too long, should i take the little brother comment as a no-go or a try harder?? pls help !! thanks

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