hmm (guy problems)

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i've resisted posting my situation on here, but dunno, temptation has driven me to do it.

the other week (like, 3 or 4 weeks ago) i went out with this guy for a bit, he's one of my really really close guy friends but from before i became friends with him i've had feelings for him. i told him this the other week and he seemed alright with it but he didn't feel the same back, which i was ok with. but then we hadn't spoken since, and it really confused me because i had tried getting in touch every now and then. before he used to call back/text back, but he didn't this time..

i eventually felt like it was pointless 'chasing' someone who said he valued our friendship but forgot i existed, then yesterday something magically happened. he had a day off college and came to visit my 6th form (he dropped out last yr so he knows loads of people) but i never realised it, and he was waiting outside school.. for me!! firstly he scared the life out of me, and then i dunno.. i drove off to our other 6th form building and so did he, and when i came back with my lunch to the car park, he was still there.. he took me out for a drive and when i asked him, were you waiting for me? he denied it, but i found it hard to believe that he was just stood in the car park and as soon as i came, his friends said 'cya' to him and he came straight to me.. :-/

so yeah, we went out for a pretty random drive to a water park, it was fun, but it made me think, how can everything be so good between us yet we've not seen each other for so long?

i appreciate it, i really do, but i can't help question it all.

Reply 1

Kettle's on

Wow thats erm...great...
what is it you want us to say exactly?

Reply 2

mc_hamster

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I don't understand, but what I'm grasping at is you like this guy and things are going well between you?
Am I right?
If so, what's the problem?

Reply 3

Misogynist

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hm, maybe he had a second thought?

Reply 4

username74922

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Maybe you're getting a bit big headed here OP - why is it so hard for you to believe that he may have come to see his friends be they girls or boys ?? did it occur to you that maybe during the time he spent not returning your calls or texts may have been occupied with him calling or texting another girl that he likes? she may even be from your 6th form !!! the best thing to do here is to ask him how he really feels about you and if he says he's not interested you'll have to get over him and not treat him the way you would if he was indeed your boyfriend. This is the mistake many girls make and end up losing a good friend or even a bad one at that !!

Reply 5

Zafda

OP

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lol i knew i'd make a cock out of myself for doing this.
i didn't want to ask anything, if anything i wanted to know what people thought of the situation.. but never mind.

i know how he feels about me, just friends.. but he came to see me, thats the thing.

never mind..

Reply 6

username74922

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Zafda

lol i knew i'd make a cock out of myself for doing this.
i didn't want to ask anything, if anything i wanted to know what people thought of the situation.. but never mind.

i know how he feels about me, just friends.. but he came to see me, thats the thing.

never mind..

You have not made a cock out of yourself and never think you have because you seem a very nice person to get to know but we can't judge until we know the actual factual events that occured and just you thinking he came for you is not stone hard evidence that he infact did. It doesn't concern me wether he did or not and i'm sorry if i sounded a bit of an idiot in the last post but frankly i tried to give the best advice possible after analysing all the relevant information given. :wink:

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