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I’ve always tried to be a good friends and support people, I have added them to groups to discuss work, which they found helpful. But recently:
I feel like I am being left out of everything. They all seem to meet up and hang around together and exclude me, even though they know I am outgoing. I am really, really upset. What should I do?
- I wasn't invited to a night out and when I asked him about it he said -- "i'll try to remember to invite you when I get home but I might forget." He invited all our friends, apart from me;
- Recently, another one of his mates didn't invite me to his house party and our other friend tried to cover up he was going when I asked. When I asked the host, he said he genuinely forget and gave me the details. I said I was going but some of my friends seemed surprised that I was.
I feel like I am being left out of everything. They all seem to meet up and hang around together and exclude me, even though they know I am outgoing. I am really, really upset. What should I do?
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Maybe they just don't like you anymore? Nothing you can do I guess apart from make new friends 
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(Original post by MichuAtDeGeaBa)
Maybe they just don't like you anymore? Nothing you can do I guess apart from make new friends
Maybe they just don't like you anymore? Nothing you can do I guess apart from make new friends
The one who tried to cover up, uses me all the time to discuss coursework and proof-read work.
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(Original post by Anonymous)
Does it sound like they dont?
The one who tried to cover up, uses me all the time to discuss coursework and proof-read work.
Does it sound like they dont?
The one who tried to cover up, uses me all the time to discuss coursework and proof-read work.
Maybe he's using you then. Sucks though because it would be better that they'd confront you with their problem. If they just don't like you enough to be your friend then move on and find new ones. Don't let this person just use you like this
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(Original post by MichuAtDeGeaBa)
Maybe he's using you then. Sucks though because it would be better that they'd confront you with their problem. If they just don't like you enough to be your friend then move on and find new ones. Don't let this person just use you like this
Maybe he's using you then. Sucks though because it would be better that they'd confront you with their problem. If they just don't like you enough to be your friend then move on and find new ones. Don't let this person just use you like this
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(Original post by MichuAtDeGeaBa)
Maybe they just don't like you anymore? Nothing you can do I guess apart from make new friends
Maybe they just don't like you anymore? Nothing you can do I guess apart from make new friends
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(Original post by Laomedeia)
Yeah, but no point making new versions of problems he already has. I do most things on my own and this ensures I dont have to rely on so called friends. Life is easier for me to keep it to myself with the exception of masturbating. I would like a partner to assist me in that.
Yeah, but no point making new versions of problems he already has. I do most things on my own and this ensures I dont have to rely on so called friends. Life is easier for me to keep it to myself with the exception of masturbating. I would like a partner to assist me in that.
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(Original post by Anonymous)
Would you be pissed if they were your friends?
Would you be pissed if they were your friends?
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(Original post by Laomedeia)
Depends what you mean by pissed.
Depends what you mean by pissed.
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(Original post by Laomedeia)
Yeah, but no point making new versions of problems he already has. I do most things on my own and this ensures I dont have to rely on so called friends. Life is easier for me to keep it to myself with the exception of masturbating. I would like a partner to assist me in that.
Yeah, but no point making new versions of problems he already has. I do most things on my own and this ensures I dont have to rely on so called friends. Life is easier for me to keep it to myself with the exception of masturbating. I would like a partner to assist me in that.
Why should it be his problem? It's his "friends" who have the issue and he shouldn't have to deal with it. If they're good friends they're better off confronting him about the problem.
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(Original post by Anonymous)
Well angry and humiliated like I was.
Well angry and humiliated like I was.
(Original post by MichuAtDeGeaBa)
Why should it be his problem? It's his "friends" who have the issue and he shouldn't have to deal with it. If they're good friends they're better off confronting him about the problem.
Why should it be his problem? It's his "friends" who have the issue and he shouldn't have to deal with it. If they're good friends they're better off confronting him about the problem.
Personally I find other people irritating so my opinion could be biased or something.
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(Original post by OU Student)
Find new friends
Find new friends
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(Original post by Anonymous)
What do you think I should do?
What do you think I should do?
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(Original post by Anonymous)
What do you think I should do?
What do you think I should do?
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two options.
1)Move on and no contact
2)Ask them why they're leaving you out all the time and trying to cover up about it. If you don't like the answer move on.
I would go with option one. Will cause less of a scene.
1)Move on and no contact
2)Ask them why they're leaving you out all the time and trying to cover up about it. If you don't like the answer move on.
I would go with option one. Will cause less of a scene.
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(Original post by Anonymous)
Do they sound douchey to you?
Do they sound douchey to you?
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(Original post by ChickenMadness)
two options.
1)Move on and no contact
2)Ask them why they're leaving you out all the time and trying to cover up about it. If you don't like the answer move on.
I would go with option one. Will cause less of a scene.
two options.
1)Move on and no contact
2)Ask them why they're leaving you out all the time and trying to cover up about it. If you don't like the answer move on.
I would go with option one. Will cause less of a scene.
(Original post by OU Student)
Yes. There are certain things I can't do, so my friends leave me out. That's fine and I accept it. But most things, they involve me in.
Yes. There are certain things I can't do, so my friends leave me out. That's fine and I accept it. But most things, they involve me in.
(Original post by Laomedeia)
Yeah, but no point making new versions of problems he already has. I do most things on my own and this ensures I dont have to rely on so called friends. Life is easier for me to keep it to myself with the exception of masturbating. I would like a partner to assist me in that.
Yeah, but no point making new versions of problems he already has. I do most things on my own and this ensures I dont have to rely on so called friends. Life is easier for me to keep it to myself with the exception of masturbating. I would like a partner to assist me in that.
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