What type of social life for the post uni single guy?

Get yourself a nice little professional qualification from a course and go abroad, travel a bit, have some fun and make some money on the side whilst you're out there experiencing the big world. Why not? You only get one life to do it in so you may as well make the most of it whilst you can.

So ive been graduated a while now and lost most freinds..seen many on fb married with kids etc now..well im not into that..

And tbh as i was focused on studies i never done much partying during uni but i regret that now as it feels that was the time to do it.

So here i am a few years out of uni with minimal freinds and no long term plans at all..

I see all the parties and people going to clubs etc in grps but feel they are like uni kids and im no longer in that crowd.

So wtf is a guy like me meant to do...dont want to be a tag along with young folk trying to crash parties with the young ones etc...

but then again the married/couple lifestyle aint for me.,

Ideally mentally im still 19-20 wanting to go to clubs/parties at weekends etc...but those opportunities seem dead.

any ideas or people in similar boat?

Sounds a lot like me except I'm graduating this year. Kind of wish I didn't bother trying so hard as I haven't managed to secure a graduate job.