there are a lot of men who would pray on 17 year olds. make no mistake they know what they are doing is wrong and they know they can manipulate you. maybe you don't feel like he's manipulating you but that's the point. of course older men seem more attractive to you, that's because 17 year old boys are very immature. Imagine, if you were 25 and you had a 25 year old friend who was going out with a 17 year old, what would you think?
when i was 16, i was seeing a 24 year old. he made me feel so confident and he was so much better than the boys from school. i still felt a bit weird about him being so much older tough so i told myself i wouldn't sleep with him. but one day when he knew my parents were away for the weekend he came to my house, uninvited. we had been seeing each other for 5 months at that point, he became extremely angry because i refused to let him sleep in my room , i then had to call the neighbours for help. since then i broke it off with him but he kept coming to my school and sent me texts saying he would tell my parents that i slept with him and that he would hurt me etc.