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Original post by garfeeled
If you want to try it out go on late at night ( if your in the uk p) that way most views will be American. As a warning you might get comments on your body and what you do ( I've seen some great people really upset by them, I know one guy with a scar the quit after comments about it). It's a good way to experiment with voyeurism without many risks other forms have. You don't even have to do much, you can just do some soft stuff first to see if you actually enjoy it.


Yeah, I'm in London. Gosh, they get that harsh? :K: Don't know if I could fight my insecurities long enough to take the heat lol but yes, experimenting with voyeurism sounds very appealing to me. Don't know how the bf would feel though tbh I've never really told him that. Just pretend when we're in the bedroom but there's big difference between fantasy and reality right. Lucky you for being in such a trusting relationship. I hope someday we get there too lol
Original post by PinkMobilePhone
Hmm yeah I guess you probably haven't a massive amount of competition being a male cammer. Females on the other hand...well the market is saturated with cam girls.

Still though, ouch, I can't imagine the awkwardness of meeting a viewer.


From what I can gather it's harder (pun not intended) for cam girls, especially given some guys seem to think it's an indication they will sleep with them.

It was rather awkward, we chatted for a bit about general stuff. Thankfully they didn't live in the area and were their for a friend event thing.
Original post by garfeeled
From what I can gather it's harder (pun not intended) for cam girls, especially given some guys seem to think it's an indication they will sleep with them.

It was rather awkward, we chatted for a bit about general stuff. Thankfully they didn't live in the area and were their for a friend event thing.


Yeah there is a lot of "do you meet?" and they aren't always willing to take no for an answer. Some are fine with a no, but others try putting the pressure on. Usually most are polite though, even if they are a bit persistent.
Original post by PinkMobilePhone
Yeah there is a lot of "do you meet?" and they aren't always willing to take no for an answer. Some are fine with a no, but others try putting the pressure on. Usually most are polite though, even if they are a bit persistent.


That my only worry about accidentally meeting one ( would never intentionally meet up) if they start to get pushy.
Original post by garfeeled
That my only worry about accidentally meeting one ( would never intentionally meet up) if they start to get pushy.


If you're in a public place hopefully that wouldn't happen. You could always duck into a shop and busy yourself talking to a staff member or something.

Definitely consider just denying that you're the person they've seen on cam.
Original post by godivaontherocks
Yeah, I'm in London. Gosh, they get that harsh? :K: Don't know if I could fight my insecurities long enough to take the heat lol but yes, experimenting with voyeurism sounds very appealing to me. Don't know how the bf would feel though tbh I've never really told him that. Just pretend when we're in the bedroom but there's big difference between fantasy and reality right. Lucky you for being in such a trusting relationship. I hope someday we get there too lol


I started camming before my relationship with him which made it kinda complicated, do I stop , do I tell him. Kept going with it just reduced how often i did it and then it got to as point where I felt he need to know.p
But yeah some comments can get really harsh, they usually only appear if you refuse to do something p, the scar guy didn't want to do something me stuff this guy was suggesting and it got really heated and he just felt like he had to stop broadcasting. All the sites I know of let you block people or make people mods who can block people but sometimes things bother them and he is really is really sensitive about his scar.
If he knows you fantasy about it and he goes along with it that a good sign, just its hard to know r you trust the guy enough to talk about it.m
Original post by PinkMobilePhone
If you're in a public place hopefully that wouldn't happen. You could always duck into a shop and busy yourself talking to a staff member or something.

Definitely consider just denying that you're the person they've seen on cam.


Yeah deny deny deny would be all i would do. Luckily I'm quite big so worse comes to worse I can scare them off. I would be useless in a real fight.
Original post by garfeeled
I started camming before my relationship with him which made it kinda complicated, do I stop , do I tell him. Kept going with it just reduced how often i did it and then it got to as point where I felt he need to know.p
But yeah some comments can get really harsh, they usually only appear if you refuse to do something p, the scar guy didn't want to do something me stuff this guy was suggesting and it got really heated and he just felt like he had to stop broadcasting. All the sites I know of let you block people or make people mods who can block people but sometimes things bother them and he is really is really sensitive about his scar.
If he knows you fantasy about it and he goes along with it that a good sign, just its hard to know r you trust the guy enough to talk about it.m

Sadly, no... and I sometimes doubt I'll ever be able to trust him to the point of opening up about these kind of fantasies. I need freaking courage lol You're lucky your guy was so cool with that. I've seen a lot of those kind of videos and always wondered if the participants don't ever get a bit bogged down by insecurities... if their romantic partners ever get jealous, etc. Really interesting... what do they tend to be like regarding tattoos? Any probs?
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Original post by godivaontherocks
Sadly, no... and I sometimes doubt I'll ever be able to trust him to the point of opening up about these kind of fantasies. I need freaking courage lol You're lucky your guy was so cool with that. I've seen a lot of those kind of videos and always wondered if the participants don't ever get a bit bogged down by insecurities... if their romantic partners ever get jealous, etc. Really interesting... what do they tend to be like regarding tattoos? Any probs?


No probs from what I've seen p, either it's not mentioned or is talked about positively. What really helped when it came to my relationship was that we had talked about stuff we enjoy in bed ( plus we had already done some stuff that required trust itself). I know my bf got a bit jealous when I first told him but he got over it when I explained that it wasn't who was watching just the fact they were watching.

Ultimately I lucky i found I guy I'm so compatible with ( sexually at least, sometimes he can be so infuriating)
Original post by garfeeled
No probs from what I've seen p, either it's not mentioned or is talked about positively. What really helped when it came to my relationship was that we had talked about stuff we enjoy in bed ( plus we had already done some stuff that required trust itself). I know my bf got a bit jealous when I first told him but he got over it when I explained that it wasn't who was watching just the fact they were watching.

Ultimately I lucky i found I guy I'm so compatible with ( sexually at least, sometimes he can be so infuriating)


lol you win some, you lose some - ain't that always the way. :tongue: I don't think any relationship is without it's pitfalls lol Good thing he's able to make you react like that! I can't imagine being with any guy who doesn't drive me nuts at least some of the time. Nah, but thing is I feel like we probably really share the same kind of fantasies. Everytime we go there he really seems to be on the same page as me. But the level of trust is not quitethere yet. It would be an understatement to say I have trust issues especially with guys I really fall hard for. I totally get your point - I guess you guys communicate well in the bedroom. Always a sign of a healthy relationship. :smile:

Ah cool, I did wonder about the tatts. Good to know they wouldn't see a problem with that.x
Original post by godivaontherocks
lol you win some, you lose some - ain't that always the way. :tongue: I don't think any relationship is without it's pitfalls lol Good thing he's able to make you react like that! I can't imagine being with any guy who doesn't drive me nuts at least some of the time. Nah, but thing is I feel like we probably really share the same kind of fantasies. Everytime we go there he really seems to be on the same page as me. But the level of trust is not quitethere yet. It would be an understatement to say I have trust issues especially with guys I really fall hard for. I totally get your point - I guess you guys communicate well in the bedroom. Always a sign of a healthy relationship. :smile:

Ah cool, I did wonder about the tatts. Good to know they wouldn't see a problem with that.x


Trust is one of those things, it'll build up and eventually without realising you will reach that point where you trust them enough.
Oh baby hardcore gangbang :perv: But in reality, nope.
Original post by garfeeled
Trust is one of those things, it'll build up and eventually without realising you will reach that point where you trust them enough.

I guess you're right, I'm still learning not to have a dark outlook on everything. Especially with him, our relationship. Gotta be patient lol Thanks hun, that gives me some courage. :smile:x
Original post by godivaontherocks
I guess you're right, I'm still learning not to have a dark outlook on everything. Especially with him, our relationship. Gotta be patient lol Thanks hun, that gives me some courage. :smile:x


Doesn't matter glad I could help, I hope you find what your after.
Original post by garfeeled
Doesn't matter glad I could help, I hope you find what your after.

Thank you! :smile:xx
Original post by Josb
Keep us informed if you do it.


Probably not :tongue:
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Original post by XcitingStuart
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has anyone become a cam girl in order to pay for university?
Original post by NutE
Only if I'm teamed up with my boyfriend. I'd like the world to see how we make love, I'm sure no one else does it as passionately and dirty as we do :smile:

But to be a general porn star? Naa. I don't want to be penetrated by random men.

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