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Just look into her eyes, lean in (shut eyes) and it'll all come naturally my friend...Ofcourse your first time will probably be pretty ****ty, like too much tongue or too less, or a tooth collision or saliva everywhere but still they'll get better each time.
Happy kissing. x
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Mate, its really really easy.

Heres some advice though, try doing it somewere dark like a cinema or make sure its nighttime (since its winter this aint hard). Start off by kissing her on the cheek and then kiss her multiple times around that area (like you would kiss your mum when you were little - wrong but right), then move your way closer to her mouth and if shes up for kissing you, she should open her mouth a little, just stick your tongue in and brush it against hers! Then take it back and then stick it back in, keep doing this and thats pretty much it, make sure your lips are locked etc and that should be pretty much it...I think?

Actually reading back this all sounds a bit complicated and I probably didnt explain it right...

Oh well, just go for it mate, it comes naturally and its pretty damn easy.

EDIT: MAKE SURE YOUR EYES ARE CLOSED THROUGHOUT.
Reply 3
if the first kiss goes badly, dont be put off. people improve with practice.
two types of bad kiss. washing machine or tumble dryer. try to for something in the middle!
Reply 4
Just massage tongue gently at first, but dont put too much tongue in, and try not to make it too slimey..
Reply 5
ive always found that the extreme tongue action is best saved for down below
Anonymous
Hi, I'm 20 and getting close to a girl...

Someday kissing time will happen. Only problem is, I've never really kissed a girl (haha, yes... very funny!) I want some advice

Solution: this post on TSR.
Ron Stoppable, adapted
To share an electrifying kiss you need to build the tension lots and lots - lots of touching then apparent indifference. 2 steps forward, 1 step back.

Play with her hair, nip with your lips on the tip of her nose, then just barely touch lips and move back a little. Smile(!) then move in slightly so you're barely touching lips again and let her kiss you. She will.
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Originally Posted by Ron Stoppable, adapted
To share an electrifying kiss you need to build the tension lots and lots - lots of touching then apparent indifference. 2 steps forward, 1 step back.

Play with her hair, nip with your lips on the tip of her nose, then just barely touch lips and move back a little. Smile(!) then move in slightly so you're barely touching lips again and let her kiss you. She will.


wow, get that right and i dont think you can go wrong. ;kissing2;


:poke: <--(hasnt really got much to do with the topic... i just like the smiley)
Remember to tilt your head slightly to one side so you don't hit noses. You sometimes get into an awkward situation where you both seem to be tilting heads the same way, so maybe put your hands gently on her head, which seems romantic but is also a way to guide her. Don't open your mouth too wide either. Good luck!
Reply 9
To be honest, if someone did to me what Ron just described I'd think they were a weirdo and not kiss them.

Little bit over ambitious advice for a newbie at kissing.

There's no point stressing over it - it is something that comes naturally. Just go with the flow.
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Bedshaped
Mate, its really really easy.

Heres some advice though, try doing it somewere dark like a cinema or make sure its nighttime (since its winter this aint hard). Start off by kissing her on the cheek and then kiss her multiple times around that area (like you would kiss your mum when you were little - wrong but right), then move your way closer to her mouth and if shes up for kissing you, she should open her mouth a little, just stick your tongue in and brush it against hers! Then take it back and then stick it back in, keep doing this and thats pretty much it, make sure your lips are locked etc and that should be pretty much it...I think?

Actually reading back this all sounds a bit complicated and I probably didnt explain it right...

Oh well, just go for it mate, it comes naturally and its pretty damn easy.

EDIT: MAKE SURE YOUR EYES ARE CLOSED THROUGHOUT.


Oh come on, kiss her on the lips properly, you chicken. I'd be pretty annoyed if i lent in for a kiss and someone started pecking my cheek like i was their mother.
Watch cruel intentions?
Reply 12
Too much spit in that kiss...
To be honest, your first kiss will probobly be crap, methinks everyone's is.

But it all comes natually really :smile:. I mean on a basic level, kissing is ejoying the feeling of your lips pressed together, the sensuality and just being natural. All I could say is let it happen.

And don't ask to kiss her. Please please please don't ask to kiss her.
Reply 14
The answer to that question should always be 'No', if you have to ask, you don't deserve a kiss.
Reply 15
try google-ing it,theres LOADS of stuff on there for newbies! have fun x
Reply 16
Oh dear, I'm now getting all nervous about seeing her again, what am I going to say, how am I going to get her in the right mood?, should I touch her sometimes so that she gets confortable around me? How will I get her out of the group, I don't want to seem too interested?! My first kiss is going to suck thanks for that "I'm Spartacus", how embarrassing if that happens. She'll think I'm a right loser.

Oh deary me :/
it really does come naturally. just put your lips together, and if she opens her mouth, open yours with hers, and gradually you'll get into a rhythm that you're used too. different people kiss differently.
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Oh come on, kiss her on the lips properly, you chicken. I'd be pretty annoyed if i lent in for a kiss and someone started pecking my cheek like i was their mother.


Yeah,I'd be kind of like 'Er,what the hell are you doing?'

OP-just go with the flow. Seriously,it will all come naturally. It may feel like it won't atm but when you get into that situation it will!
Oh I'm single all this kissing chat makes me want to kis someone :frown:

You lot make it all seem so amazing (which it is) but I want one now.