I feel so humiliated...

I actually find it more embarrassing that she feels it was okay to say something like that, especially if she was loud about it :/ I get the impression that your friendship is so far gone that she actually wanted to humiliate you, there. Please try not to let it get to you, it shouldn't be something that matters - and it's certainly not something your friends need to be concerned about. If you want to have sex, you will, it's absolutely nothing to do with them.

Lol the last part made me lmfao, its true what your saying, its like they expect us to have sex, like its compulsary or something when it isnt. I'm a muslim and sex before marriage is forbidden so I couldn't have sex f I tried lol

why are you emabrressed?

You will be so much more respected as a virgin. It's like finding gold! Trust me!

I'm not embarrassed by fact that I'm a virgin, it's just my "friend" who said it out loud in college library in conversation with other college mates. It's nobody's business if I am or not, is it? And the way people looked at me made me feel embarrassed....



I never understood why it's like finding gold lol. Can you explain that phenomenon please?

I just feel as though, that virginity doesn't mean as much to people as it does now days. From my area, a lot of girls are so young and trying to lose it, and to me, it's a very big deal. It's like gold, because you are waiting for the right person, not just willing to get rid of it. It's just very rare now days to find women with self respect who are willing to hold on to something which is so precious

You seem embarrassed about it. Why is that so?
Don't conform to the ridiculous norm of "You're only cool once you've lost your virginity". It doesn't mean anything. The guy was an idiot for shouting that out, but just try and brush it off.

Yeah people have different views I respect that haha theres times where I wshed it wasn't like that in my religion, I always have doubts about the whole "no sex before marriage" thingy, but I guess thats how it goes, I can't do anything about it lol Bravo to you!! I'm so glad you feel like that, good on ya, its good that you'd rather be a virgin than not be a teen mum who's sitting her GCSE's while having a pregnant belly its your choice though, just do what you feel is right, i'm sure you can control your own actions, you don't need anyone to tell you what to do, its your life Just make the right decisions and you'll be fine xx

Sorry, can't help myself but be a bit of a bad boy at times

Try telling that to the millions of frustrated ones on here like me

mate, that story makes you sound like a loser not like a bad boy