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Poll: Men, what are your sexual preferences with regards to marriage?
I am a young man. If I get married, I want to marry a girl who is a virgin. I want to explore our sexualities together and create a joint identity, where I lead her and she follows me. (5)
35.71%
I am a young man. If I get married, I want to marry a girl who is already sexually experienced and has a well developed sexual identity. While I would not create a joint sexual identity with her, I would still want to lead her. (3)
21.43%
I am a young man. If I get married, I want to marry a girl who is already sexually experienced and has a well developed sexual identity. She should be either my sexual partner or my sexual dominant, and I should not lead her. (2)
14.29%
I am an older man (35+). If I get married, I want to marry a girl who is a virgin. I want to explore our sexualities together and create a joint identity, where I lead her and she follows me. (0)
0%
I am an older man. If I get married, I want to marry a girl who is already sexually experienced and has a well developed sexual identity. While I would not create a joint sexual identity with her, I would still want to lead her. (0)
0%
I am an older man. If I get married, I want to marry a girl who is already sexually experienced and has a well developed sexual identity. She should be either my sexual partner or my sexual dominant, and I should not lead her. (0)
0%
I am a woman, homosexual etc. (4)
28.57%
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Please vote here for more precise options: http://www.thestudentroom.co.uk/show....php?t=3296051
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Neither of these. I don't mind if she's a virgin or not and I like her to dominate just as much as I like to dominate
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Neither of these. I don't mind if she's a virgin or not and I like her to dominate just as much as I like to dominate
Well option 3 is closest to your choice, I think.
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Would rather marry a virgin, but what's that BS about 'leading her'? I would rather marry a woman, not a cow.
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(Original post by ChoccyPhilly)
Neither of these. I don't mind if she's a virgin or not and I like her to dominate just as much as I like to dominate
This exactly.
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Would rather marry a virgin, but what's that BS about 'leading her'? I would rather marry a woman, not a cow.
It's more aimed at those looking for traditional marriage. I didn't think anyone would want to marry a virgin without wanting to be the dominant man.

Maybe I should recreate the poll.
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Would rather marry a virgin, but what's that BS about 'leading her'? I would rather marry a woman, not a cow.
Why would you rather her a virgin?
Are you a virgin?

Would you want you both to be virgins?
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The only appeal there is of going out with a virgin is that they won't judge me if I'm bad lol
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Why would you rather her a virgin? Are you a virgin? Would you want you both to be virgins?
Personal preference, but I would be more than happy to marry a girl if she wasn't a virgin, as long as she was the right person for me (same with a virgin tbh).
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It's more aimed at those looking for traditional marriage. I didn't think anyone would want to marry a virgin without wanting to be the dominant man.

Maybe I should recreate the poll.

Good idea :yy:
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This poll doesn't leave room for men who would rather their wife be a virgin before they got together but wouldn't wait until marriage to have sex with her. Waiting until marriage to have sex is extremely unusual, whereas young men saying that they want their future wife to be a virgin when they meet is more common.
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Personal preference, but I would be more than happy to marry a girl if she wasn't a virgin, as long as she was the right person for me (same with a virgin tbh).
What is your reason for your "personal preference"?
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http://www.thestudentroom.co.uk/show....php?t=3296051

here is the amended poll.
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This poll doesn't leave room for men who would rather their wife be a virgin before they got together but wouldn't wait until marriage to have sex with her. Waiting until marriage to have sex is extremely unusual, whereas young men saying that they want their future wife to be a virgin when they meet is more common.
It's an argument of semantics. Don't make me overspecify the poll.

Here's the new one. http://www.thestudentroom.co.uk/show....php?t=3296051
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What is your reason for your "personal preference"?
No idea, same reason why I can't pinpoint my other preferences for things.
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No idea, same reason why I can't pinpoint my other preferences for things.
New poll: http://www.thestudentroom.co.uk/show....php?t=3296051
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Don't care. It's becoming more unlikely that they would be a virgin as I get older anyway. I find the attitude that women who have already had sex are some how used goods deeply sexist and pretty ****. If I was a girl I wouldn't want to be with these guys who think like that.
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It's an argument of semantics. Don't make me overspecify the poll.

Here's the new one. http://www.thestudentroom.co.uk/show....php?t=3296051
It was just a really weird way of wording it.
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No idea, same reason why I can't pinpoint my other preferences for things.
Well no, normally preferences can be pinpointed to sensory responses which, while properly basic, still suffice as the base of most things.

Do you think its naturally, or societally ingrained for you as a preference?
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Well no, normally preferences can be pinpointed to sensory responses which, while properly basic, still suffice as the base of most things.

Do you think its naturally, or societally ingrained for you as a preference?
Dude, I came here to answer a poll, not take a psychology lesson.
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