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I'm addicted to porn. Please help watch

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    I was jacking off for 6 last night and then I got 4 hours sleep and I can't be assed getting out of bed and now i'm at it again. There's always something that just captures my attention and I feel terrible but I can't control my sex dive.

    What girl would ever like me? I feel terrified thinking of what they would think if they new I watched so much porn. Would they be disgusted at me?

    I need to get to motivation and must stop. But how?
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    Cold showers and aggressive exercise
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    You need to get a life.

    Chronic masturbators tend to do so because they have the time to do so. Go outside. Get in public. Unless you have an incredibly high tolerance for embarrassment - which I doubt given you're anon - you're not going to jack of in public, and you mind will be on other things anyway. Just don't let yourself get stuck in a routine of getting home, then sitting at your desk all night before going to bed, on loop. Especially if you're feeling isolated/lonely, you're going to do it just to make yourself feel better. Find another release. Get out and enjoy yourself.
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    In Sons of Anarchy, a guy called Chucky was a chronic masterbator but he ended up stopping all together. Do you know how? He got like 8 of his fingers cut off by the Chinese

    In all seriousness, if you wanna get rid of that habit,when you find yourself reaching down into your underwear, go do something else to keep your hands busy. I think its called habit reversal?
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    I've got depression.
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    Should I whip myself or burn my hand under a candle flame every time I get the urge?
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    Imagine this is a known problem in the Internet porn age. Have you tried googling for some self help advice? I would advise going cold turkey on the porn. Lock up your tablet or block the porn. Then fill the time with new hobbies, even some where you might find a girlfriend and find a more rewarding and wholesome release of energy. As to what girls will make off it, I'm sure masturbation is an accepted phenomena but compulsive Internet fuelled *******, to exclusion of other activity, is unlikely to be a draw..
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Should I whip myself or burn my hand under a candle flame every time I get the urge?
    Now I'm beginning to think you're trolling or in the grip of a crazy religious cult too.
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    Should I whip myself or burn my hand under a candle flame every time I get the urge?
    You shouldn't partake in self-harm. Its hard to stop.

    Ive been through depression myself. There's an underlying reason to why you are depressed even if you dont think so. You could've repressed it to protect yourself from emotional distress.

    In my opinion, you should try and remove yourself from what is making you depressed otherwise, it will eat you alive and you will forget who you once were
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    Force yourself to get up and do something.im exhausted from ******* isn't a good excuse. You say you have depression - if this is diagnosed, are you medicated? I'm guessing no cos most anti depressant and have a negative effect on sex drive. If you aren't going for meds, take the other other help. If you haven't even been medically diagnosed then you can't say 'oh I'm depressed that's why I **** all night' as an excuse because you're doing sod all to change it

    As for girls, yes they would all be disgusted and think you're a loser. That's the truth.

    I'm sure you have a lot of great qualities and talents even if you can't see them. It's up to you to get off your ass and do something else.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Should I whip myself or burn my hand under a candle flame every time I get the urge?
    Just go out and do something! Jeez
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    HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA HA! It's probably some troll because if you're willing to tell random strangers, you should also have the balls to tell your GP. Problem diverted.
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    My GP appears to be even stranger than me.
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    HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA HA! It's probably some troll because if you're willing to tell random strangers, you should also have the balls to tell your GP. Problem diverted.
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    You can tell strangers because they're strangers, you can offload without any real life consequences. Telling a GP means a face to face conversation with someone you've probably known years and it then being recorded in your medical history forever, which future employers may well see - my employers use a company to check med records and mine was seen. You don't have to consent but obviously may not get the job if you don't

    Maybe he is a troll but this logic makes zero sense
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Should I whip myself or burn my hand under a candle flame every time I get the urge?
    Only if you're struggling to get it up.
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    Dude seriously watch out because if you keep doing this sinful behaviour, your penis will fall off and find a new owner...
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    (Original post by Marshall Taylor)
    Dude seriously watch out because if you keep doing this sinful behaviour, your penis will fall off and find a new owner...
    So some poor sob will be forced to embrace two penises.
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    (Original post by Maradiah)
    So some poor sob will be forced to embrace two penises.

    +1 rofl
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    (Original post by undine_monty)
    You shouldn't partake in self-harm. Its hard to stop.

    Ive been through depression myself. There's an underlying reason to why you are depressed even if you dont think so. You could've repressed it to protect yourself from emotional distress.

    In my opinion, you should try and remove yourself from what is making you depressed otherwise, it will eat you alive and you will forget who you once were
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    I was jacking off for 6 last night and then I got 4 hours sleep and I can't be assed getting out of bed and now i'm at it again. There's always something that just captures my attention and I feel terrible but I can't control my sex dive.

    What girl would ever like me? I feel terrified thinking of what they would think if they new I watched so much porn. Would they be disgusted at me?

    I need to get to motivation and must stop. But how?
    Six times in one night? Or did you mean till 6am?
 
 
 
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