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    From when you first started dating/going out, how long did you wait until you had sex? I'm thinking I'll wait a month or 2 but not sure.
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    Current boyfriend, few weeks, 2-3 meetings, we knew each other before. It stated as an affair.

    Ex bf about a month, approx 8-10 dates.

    I can't really remember the ones before
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    (Original post by AvaAdore)
    Current boyfriend, few weeks, 2-3 meetings, we knew each other before. It stated as an affair.

    Ex bf about a month, approx 8-10 dates.

    I can't really remember the ones before
    Those goes ain't loyal 🎶
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    If you fancy the pants of each other and >18 then the 3rd date rule is not a bad guide.
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    (Original post by Ritterschaft)
    Those goes ain't loyal 🎶
    *hoes, dumbass.

    I regret cheating but it wasn't black and white. And it all worked out for the best for everyone involved, including my ex.
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    we dated for 1 week, made it official and then were a couple for another week and did it. Although he agreed to wait 2 months till my birthday but we just kept fighting over sex (I really didnt want to do it) so I finally agreed.
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    (Original post by AvaAdore)
    *hoes, dumbass.

    I regret cheating but it wasn't black and white. And it all worked out for the best for everyone involved, including my ex.
    T'was a typo fool
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    From when you first started dating/going out, how long did you wait until you had sex? I'm thinking I'll wait a month or 2 but not sure.
    We waited a couple of months before having sex. Nothing wrong with that at all. But it really does depend on what the two of you want.
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    (Original post by Ritterschaft)
    T'was a typo fool
    Thanks but I did figure out that you didn't think the correct word was 'goes'. Kinda took away from your ever-stinging and hilarious burn still I'm afraid.
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    If it was just the physical attraction id wait a day or two nothing under but if i was emotionally attracted id prob wait forever tbh
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    With my current boy friend, we waited 4 months
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    Knew each other for 4 months, then lost my v to him 1 month after we started dating. Sounds bad when I write it lol
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    (Original post by Zarek)
    If you fancy the pants of each other and >18 then the 3rd date rule is not a bad guide.
    I'm 17
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    I'd like to wait for after marriage. But, idk before before then. First, I want to have known them for a while and date for a good few months then probably.
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    It's usually a bit different with each guy. But I waited nearly 2 months after we started dating before sleeping with my current boyfriend. We'd been friends for a few months before we started dating.
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    Me and my bf waited about one month before having sex after we started going out but done sexual things maybe a few weeks after we started going out. We had been friends before dating so already knew each other. I think I would have waited longer if I hadn't known him as well beforehand.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    I'm 17
    Then the wait until you're 18 rule applies
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    You mean, how long did I have sex with them until we started dating? :teehee:
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    I've been dating someone for 7 months and we haven't had sex yet.
 
 
 
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