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Never wanted a girlfriend and still don't - 21 years old. Normal? watch

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    As title says. Anyone else like me?

    I am straight before anyone asks.
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    I think that's fairly normal. Most people have probably had some romantic experience by 21 but not all. And while I'm not really in the same boat, I don't see anything wrong with you.
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    Idk if its normal or not, what I do know is that it doesn't matter if its normal or not.

    Good luck with your life mate.
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    It's not normal and it's not weird, just do what you want, have your own style
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    It's not normal, no.
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    it's OK, no one's forcing you to be romantic with other people
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    Well I'm 23 and I wouldn't mind settling down with a TOP lass
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    Guess it's not common but I wouldn't worry. I am 19 and whilst I had 2 small relationships in school, since then I've never really wanted to bother with romance
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    It may not be the sheep mentality, but it's the mentality of a wolf. Be out in this world for yourself, and ONLY yourself. A girlfriend would probably be a burden, but obviously smashing randoms is recommended.
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    Don't worry, you're perfectly normal. Just because it's the sociocultural norm to have multiple partners in your teens/20s doesn't mean you're abnormal for not following that trend. I'm asexual so I don't really go in for that sort of thing, and that's fine.
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    Sounds like I am normal then. Thanks
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    Personally I don't follow this "Sheep Behaviour", I don't like doing things by the norm. I have lots of friends who go and settle down, get comfortable when they are early 20's. This may be the worst things I could imagine doing. There are some people who can't stand being alone, these a boring people who hope from relationship to relationship because they can't stand their own company!

    I mean I'm not opposed to relationships, but I'd have to meet someone practically identical to myself. One thing I can't stand is someone giving me sh*t for stupid reasons, and I've put plenty of Supervisors/Managers in their place and walked a few jobs due to this, and getting that in my own free time, damn!

    "Behind every man there is a strong woman" - I have yet to meet a woman who could even attempt to try stand on par with my awesomeness!
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    Tbh I was actually like this up & till the age of 21, I was more interested in my career, hobbies, etc. Only recently I've been like "gosh I'm getting old, it would be nice to have some company..." So yeah I don't think there's anything wrong with you or anything. Just live life on you terms really!
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    Wel,, it's obviously not normal under any 'normal' definition of normal. Normal being the majority or even just common, it is neither of those. But so what?
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    (Original post by ShotsFired-9941)
    Well I'm 23 and I wouldn't mind settling down with a TOP lass
    But where will you find her!?

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    It's not common, but it's normal.
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    Absolutely nothing wrong with that. Everybody has their preferences.
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    Idk if its normal or not, what I do know is that it doesn't matter if its normal or not.

    Good luck with your life mate.
    It's not normal Ray, the guy just isn't normal
 
 
 
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