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    Hello

    I'm a 18yo male, I'm at university (1st year undergraduate) and so is my girlfriend, our uni's are 1.45 hours away from each other and we've been together about 2.5 years.

    Pretty much we've been absolutely fine with LDR, we communicated loads, were both loyal and we have sided through uni with ease staying together, we saw each other when we could etc.

    However since about 2 months ago my girlfriend has started being different in the bedroom department.. almost like she has lost interest in me, i understand this could be due to exams coming up, i finish uni soon and so does she, however she is staying at uni for longer than i am, so it will be like 6-7 weeks now before we've seen each other, usually we wouldn't let it go that long during term time.

    I don't get why she wants to stay and not go home after uni, its almost like she's not bothered about me anymore, like she'd rather be with her friends..

    We communicate loads and we definitely wouldn't hide anything from each other, so i just can't work out why its changed..

    Any advice would be appreciated.
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    Hi Being a girl in an LDR i can completely understand this. Because of exams and stress, sex is going to be the last thing on her mind. After two years there is no way that she has lost interest in you because otherwise she wouldn't have been with you for that long. And as for staying away from each other for so long, i can guarantee she misses you and she thinks of you all the time, but it's nice to spend time by yourself sometimes, what with all the travelling and everything. Maybe when you do finally see each other, surprise her or do something nice for her to let her know you care?


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    Hi Being a girl in an LDR i can completely understand this. Because of exams and stress, sex is going to be the last thing on her mind. After two years there is no way that she has lost interest in you because otherwise she wouldn't have been with you for that long. And as for staying away from each other for so long, i can guarantee she misses you and she thinks of you all the time, but it's nice to spend time by yourself sometimes, what with all the travelling and everything. Maybe when you do finally see each other, surprise her or do something nice for her to let her know you care?


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    Thanks for your response, that means a lot, i guess due to my own stress i was just worrying a lot more, i think i need to just be relaxed about it more! but definitely you've made me feel a lot better so thanks hopefully in the summer we'll be back to normal again!
 
 
 
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