thanks for the helpful supportive posts , about 3 people you know who you are :-) the rest of you people have some serious self issues, why is everyone so hung up on my sexuality ? haven't you ever heard of friendship ? bromance ? i am not gay ! to clarify I'm slowly seeing a girl i like )3rd date this week . he is just my best mate who might be gay/ bi i dunno or care i just dont want loose him. ill just forget about what happened as he seems to have.