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    So gf found out I was cheating (I blame feminism. p**sy is too goodamn easy to get these days)....but I want to win her back, because she's dope and honestly will be hard to find another girl as good as her.

    Anyhow, so my question is, how long should I go 'no contact' on her to give her enough time to miss me hard, but not too much time to get over me?
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    You sound like a bit of a ****. not sure she'll miss you mate
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    You sound like a bit of a ****. not sure she'll miss you mate
    If I could like I would I second that
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    I guess I shouldnt be surprised by the wave of judgement....you can't even make a spelling mistake on this site without a queue of people waiting to judge you
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    "Because she's dope".

    You're a prick.


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    I guess I shouldnt be surprised by the wave of judgement....you can't even make a spelling mistake on this site without a queue of people waiting to judge you
    It's not just the cheating thing though. You come across quite arrogant by assuming that she'll want to come back to you just by you ignoring her. I reckon you should try another way to get her back.

    That said I am kind of judging you. If she's that 'dope' why cheat in the first place.

    And the whole feminism thing, what you even on about?
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    It's not just the cheating thing though. You come across quite arrogant by assuming that she'll want to come back to you just by you ignoring her. I reckon you should try another way to get her back.

    That said I am kind of judging you. If she's that 'dope' why cheat in the first place.

    And the whole feminism thing, what you even on about?

    I dont assume she'll want me back just by ignoring her....I just know that I need to get her to miss me first and then try and win back her heart.

    Why I cheated is a long story, but jist of it is that I am going through some issues with sex addiction.


    And I do blame feminism to an extent....there are so many sexually liberated women these days that are practically throwing their vaginas at men....you can't blame a guy for catching :/
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    (Original post by Tom102)
    "Because she's dope".

    You're a prick.


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    Internet tough guys saying nasty things about me....I think I am gonna go curl up on my bed and cry
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    (Original post by MAINE.)
    I dont assume she'll want me back just by ignoring her....I just know that I need to get her to miss me first and then try and win back her heart.

    Why I cheated is a long story, but jist of it is that I am going through some issues with sex addiction.


    And I do blame feminism to an extent....there are so many sexually liberated women these days that are practically throwing their vaginas at men....you can't blame a guy for catching :/
    You can't blame other people for your own actions, nobody forced you to have sex. If you have sex addiction then you shouldn't be in a relationship until you have resolved those issues and whilst you are doing that sort out your attitude because it stinks.


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    (Original post by MAINE.)
    And I do blame feminism to an extent....there are so many sexually liberated women these days that are practically throwing their vaginas at men....you can't blame a guy for catching :/
    Um, yes you kind of can.
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    yeeeee..... i agree with everyone else, your acting/acted like a ****, whether you will continue to do so is up to you. But for the moment everyone agrees
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    And this is why people have trust issues.

    I doubt she'll want back the scum that cheated on her.

    And yes, we can blame you. You didn't cheat by accident, you and only you are to blame for your own actions, addiction or no addiction you are still to blame.
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    Ummmm....yea.....you haven't mentioned getting help for your sexual addiction. She's not going to want you back as you would be a repeat offender and cheat again. If your girl is so 'dope' then find a good counselor, get into therapy, then after perhaps a year of treatment you can find that girl and whole-heartedly apologize! Until you get help for yourself you shouldn't waste your ex's time.
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    (Original post by MAINE.)
    because she's dope[/FONT]
    A good troll attempt ruined right here.

    (Original post by MAINE.)
    I guess I shouldnt be surprised by the wave of judgement....you can't even make a spelling mistake on this site without a queue of people waiting to judge you
    You've got a point there.



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    I was cheating
    how long should I go 'no contact'
    to win her back

    After reading these three bits in succession I've come to the conclusion that you're an idiot.
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    (Original post by MAINE.)
    So gf found out I was cheating (I blame feminism. p**sy is too goodamn easy to get these days)....but I want to win her back, because she's dope and honestly will be hard to find another girl as good as her.

    Anyhow, so my question is, how long should I go 'no contact' on her to give her enough time to miss me hard, but not too much time to get over me?
    Don't listen to everyone else. You shouldn't contact her for at least 8 months. It'll show her that you're a really cool guy and that you're busy. She'll be missing you so much after that amount of time
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    (Original post by MAINE.)
    So gf found out I was cheating (I blame feminism. p**sy is too goodamn easy to get these days)....but I want to win her back, because she's dope and honestly will be hard to find another girl as good as her.

    Anyhow, so my question is, how long should I go 'no contact' on her to give her enough time to miss me hard, but not too much time to get over me?
    bro wth man, i respected you as a solid poster in ib forum a lot, this is poor man. hows ib anyway, it turns out that youve been following all the other young guys in your office
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    bro wth man, i respected you as a solid poster in ib forum a lot, this is poor man. hows ib anyway, it turns out that youve been following all the other young guys in your office
    lol m8 being a banker doesnt mean I have to be a good person....in fact, going on popular opinion, being a banker means I'm highly likely not to be a good person :lol:
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    lol m8 being a banker doesnt mean I have to be a good person....in fact, going on popular opinion, being a banker means I'm highly likely not to be a good person :lol:
    I know, I thought you were a good person based on your posts im saying, this shows a different side though.
    i know a lot of guys in their 20s in ib who are shagging others on the sly fro their gfs, most gfs are fine with it because they are getting showered with gifts, pathetic tbh, i thought that culture would be less existent in all honesty, ib is just **** tbh. Did any other sector like consulting or start ups never cross your mind?
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    Ok, since I dont want people to doubt the veracity of my mission re: helping people with their investment banking goals, I will come clean....

    ...I made this thread as a joke just to kill time at work. I just want to thank TSR for being the object of my amusement, I wanna thank my moms for always supporting me, and I want to thank god for being my light in those darkest hours. Peace y'all, I'm out
 
 
 
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