(Original post by MylittlePlusle)
I don't believe in "chatting up2 a female. What's wrong with saying hello and being her friend?
I don't care what people do, I don't want to hear about their sexual stuff.
I don't take notice in what females like, I am who I am.
Stuff like flirting and all those things. I don't believe in it.
I'm not a Mormon. I just don't believe in talking to a female for any other reason than becuase you wish to befriend her.
firstly, i just realised i didnt actually reply to the first bit of what you said, which was what am i on about. do you really not know what im on about? (obviously you do but ill explain) This guy, like most other guys, wants to either have sex, or get a girlfriend. he already has friends (many of which may be female), so he doesnt need to go out and make friends just for the sake of having a new friend. hes asked for advice on how to go about doing this, and you have been very unhepful. also, the way in which you worded your comment makes it sound like you're talking down to him which also isnt great.
theres nothing wrong with wanting to be a girls friend, i never said there was, but my point was theres nothing wrong with wanting to have sex with her either. whats wrong with that?
no ones telling you about their sexual stuff, hes just asking for advice on talking to girls, not how to shag them.
and stop saying you dont belive in stuff cos its vague and doesnt really help this conversation in any way, you can say "i dont like flirting because ..." this would be helpful, saying you dont belive in flirting doesnt make your point any clearer.
and please stop putting the phrase chat up in speach marks, its annoying.
please can you tell me why you think talking to a girl because you fancy her, and flirting are bad things?