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    Basically I'm an 18 year old girl and I've been seeing this older guy for a few weeks. When things are getting 'heated' when we're kissing I can tell that he's trying to initiate sex but I keep pushing him off because I've never had sex. Should I tell him ASAP? Also do you think he'll mind because of course he's older?
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Basically I'm an 18 year old girl and I've been seeing this older guy for a few weeks. When things are getting 'heated' when we're kissing I can tell that he's trying to initiate sex but I keep pushing him off because I've never had sex. Should I tell him ASAP? Also do you think he'll mind because of course he's older?
    I believe boys like Virgins!
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    Tell him or he's not worth it, do you not want to lose it with someone you feel comfortable with. Tell him if he's annoyed it's not worth it and also he might make it extra special


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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Basically I'm an 18 year old girl and I've been seeing this older guy for a few weeks. When things are getting 'heated' when we're kissing I can tell that he's trying to initiate sex but I keep pushing him off because I've never had sex. Should I tell him ASAP? Also do you think he'll mind because of course he's older?
    The question is, do you want to have sex?
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    (Original post by phunky_fresh)
    The question is, do you want to have sex?
    Yeah I'm pretty comfortable with sexuality I just know that I want the first time to be with someone special and someone who actually cares
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    (Original post by Neevan)
    I believe boys like Virgins!
    I never understood why boys like virgins erm but okay! Thank you x
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    for heavens sake the things people worry about!
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    If you're not ready, tell him. Its better he hears from you than elsewhere, and you'll find out if he's only after sex before it's too late.

    Also, how much older is he?


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    (Original post by student 1999)
    Tell him or he's not worth it, do you not want to lose it with someone you feel comfortable with. Tell him if he's annoyed it's not worth it and also he might make it extra special



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    Thanks for the help I think I'm just nervous because he's a bit older than me I feel a bit young and stupid ahah
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Basically I'm an 18 year old girl and I've been seeing this older guy for a few weeks. When things are getting 'heated' when we're kissing I can tell that he's trying to initiate sex but I keep pushing him off because I've never had sex. Should I tell him ASAP? Also do you think he'll mind because of course he's older?
    You should just tell him. The guy I'm seeing knew I was a virgin from our first date, it came up in conversation.he's been so patient and understanding since one.
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    hey i just met you and this is crazy but here's my cherry so pop it maybe
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    (Original post by Sophi12)
    If you're not ready, tell him. Its better he hears from you than elsewhere, and you'll find out if he's only after sex before it's too late.

    Also, how much older is he?


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    Hes 22
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    Idk when but if you need a fun way to say it....
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    Hey baby, I'm like olive oil
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    extra virgin :sexface:

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    (Original post by Ripper Phoenix)
    hey i just met you and this is crazy but here's my cherry so pop it maybe
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    If only you could lose your virginity twice
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    You should just tell him. The guy I'm seeing knew I was a virgin from our first date, it came up in conversation.he's been so patient and understanding since one.
    How old are you if you don't mind me asking?
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    OP: Hey hun just wanted to let you know I'm a virgin

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    BF: I DON'T CARE ...I LOVE IT! :perv: :dance:

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    loool on a serious note though yeah you should just tell him
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    Just tell the guy. Why hold things back? Especially things that are important in the relationship! I told my previous partner like in the first two weeks of getting with him. Get it out in the open woman, so it's not awkward and you can move forward together in this relationship. It's just silly not to tell your partner from early on imo

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    Ughh - It's much more embarrassing for us guys to say we're virgins.
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    Tell him if only so he understands why you may want to wait a bit longer. That way he won't misread it and think your holding back or you don't like him. Also he won't(or, shouldn't) push you so much for it if he understands you will want a bit more time to get to know him
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    How old are you if you don't mind me asking?
    I'm 26
 
 
 
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