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another bf trouble thread

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After telling my bf not to message and comment on girls pics on face box an getting really angrey and upset with him he said ok i wont do it anymore, i have just seen comments he has left girls.

Im so ****ing angrey right now. His phone is off so i cant shout at him!

Should i text him telling him i know n how angrey i am? Or leave it till the morning an call him? Either way i dont understand why he would do this? When i clearly told him not to! He knows how much i like him an that it really hurts me seeing him doing this!


argh :mad:

Reply 1

lol angrey

Reply 2

you are his girlfriend, not his mum. if you told me, ie. commanded. i wouldn't listen.

oh. and you clearly go out with idiots.

Reply 3

Phone him in the morning. Worst time to have an argument is at night cos if you don't sort it out it normally ends up with you upset and not being able to sleep. I know thats the case for me. And plus it'll give you time to calm down a bit.

Reply 4

Perhaps he isn't your type and you're reluctant to accept this. I have two dear friends who are in such a position. They perpetually declare their love for eachother - and I think mean it - but in the end, it never seems to work between them. Sometimes love isn't enough. If my girlfriend (especially if she was you :redface:) expressed displeasure at a habit of mine, I would instantly cease to continue it, or otherwise try my damndest to not let her find out. But the fact that he seems unperturbed by your entreaties, suggests, to me, that he isn't worth your affection and time. I think it's an insensitive thing for him to do when he has a girlfriend, even if he doesn't actually "mean" anything in his comments to other girls. But, perhaps you should consider if you want a boyfriend you must always tell "how to behave". From what you’ve said of him, you may want to leave this one, unless you can be sure, in all honesty, that he genuinely has consideration for your feelings. This incident doesn’t seem like he does. Of course many people will insist that it’s trivial as “it’s only facebook”, but the point is that it clearly upsets you (with some good reason), and that should be sufficient reason for him to stop. The other charge is that he lied. Liars make for bad boyfriends. Consider that.

Reply 5

u should rite a book on your troubles, no really, i would read it.

Reply 6

gossip_girl
Once again if you dont like my threads or me no need to comment or stay here.



After telling my bf not to message and comment on girls pics on face box an getting really angrey and upset with him he said ok i wont do it anymore, i have just seen comments he has left girls.

Im so ****ing angrey right now. His phone is off so i cant shout at him!

Should i text him telling him i know n how angrey i am? Or leave it till the morning an call him? Either way i dont understand why he would do this? When i clearly told him not to! He knows how much i like him an that it really hurts me seeing him doing this!


argh :mad:

That's what you get for going out with w*nkers. I suggest you learn from this and avoid them in future.

Peace out.

Reply 7

but this is the only thing he has dne tho! other than this he isnt a bastard, hes really nice.

Reply 8

Then accept the fact that he's not going to stop checking other ladies on the internet out, or leave him.

It's comparable to like those online webcams where you can chat to the ladies as well. As long as nothing comes of it, then I don't see a problem. Maybe it gets him off? Maybe give him something else to get off on? :wink:

w00tt

Reply 9

gossip_girl
but this is the only thing he has dne tho! other than this he isnt a bastard, hes really nice.



Maybe if you stop being clingy and a drama queen, you might just get along fine, has it occured to you that you shouting at him is driving him away from you, i can't see this working the way things are going.

Reply 10

cutandpasteandtwisty
That's what you get for going out with ******s. I suggest you learn from this and avoid them in future.

Peace out.


Seconded.