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    Hey,

    I am in my 20s and still a virgin. I am always being laughed at about being a virgin when it comes up although I try to avoid the question, my closest friends dont care and never bring it up unless the topic of sex comes up then they are like you need to lose you v and occasionally laugh about it, anyways to cut a long story I ended up lying to everyone including my closest friends saying I lost my virginity and I feel really bad. but i finally i never get taken the piss out of anymore but i feel guilty about lying. Is this as bad as I think? would you do the same?

    don't bother about saying you should be happy with the way you are and not to care what others think about being a virgin cause you really cant be happy especially when a girl you start seeing finds out you are a virgin and ends up leaving because they thought it was weird to take a guys virginity(happened a few times with me) I am not bad looking, I think I am ok looking, I use to be depressed back in my teens so sort of missed out on the days when everyone was losing their virginity.

    Also, I am looking to just get a prostitute over summer to just get it over and done with, would you say hiring one is a fair enough reason? are prostitutes legal in the uk idk? and do prostitutes have stds or could i request one to bring evidence of a recent std test?
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    Christ, are you friends with 13 year olds or summat :lolwut:
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    (Original post by somemightsay888)
    Christ, are you friends with 13 year olds or summat :lolwut:
    you beat me to it :unimpressed:


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    Hire an escort.
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    TOTALLY GROSS! horrible. i just puked all over my revision notes thanks to you! I have exams next week! screw you gay boy
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    (Original post by thecatwithnohat)
    you beat me to it :unimpressed:.
    Stalker :rolleyes:
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    Wait until marriage. That is what I am doing.
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    Sex is sin. Thou art a honourable and pure man.
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    (Original post by william walker)
    Wait until marriage. That is what I am doing.
    *******s lol
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    I was a virgin at 17, it sucked because all my friends sticked it in. I downloaded Tinder and lost my virginity to a one night stand, and never regret it since.
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    (Original post by Mr Strong .)
    TOTALLY GROSS! horrible. i just puked all over my revision notes thanks to you! I have exams next week! screw you gay boy
    chill out..
    Believe it or not some girls like it when guys aren't just sleeping around.. To me that personally wouldn't be a deal breaker at all (i'm a girl btw).. however I do understand why you lied about it (especially since you're a guy and there's more pressure to do it earlier) but I think it's a reaaaallly bad idea to hire a prostitute... if you really don't care about who you lose it to then just do it will a random gal - eg one night stand, so you dont have to see her again and you avoid all awkwardness (especially since it's your first time and you'll last about a minute). It's not as embarrassing as you think it is, believe me, it's actually v common
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    chill out..
    Believe it or not some girls like it when guys aren't just sleeping around.. To me that personally wouldn't be a deal breaker at all (i'm a girl btw).. however I do understand why you lied about it (especially since you're a guy and there's more pressure to do it earlier) but I think it's a reaaaallly bad idea to hire a prostitute... if you really don't care about who you lose it to then just do it will a random gal - eg one night stand, so you dont have to see her again and you avoid all awkwardness (especially since it's your first time and you'll last about a minute). It's not as embarrassing as you think it is, believe me, it's actually v common
    did not read. i read profound notes with my 2 intellectual buddies on this site not a silly sex talker. sex is bad.
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    (Original post by whorace)
    *******s lol
    What?
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    (Original post by Mr Strong .)
    did not read. i read profound notes with my 2 intellectual buddies on this site not a silly sex talker. sex is bad.
    Where have you and your two friend been all my life, and can I join you?
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    (Original post by william walker)
    Where have you and your two friend been all my life, and can I join you?
    yes you can
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    (Original post by Mr Strong .)
    yes you can
    Oh great we can follow each other and make strategies together.
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    (Original post by Mr Strong .)
    did not read. i read profound notes with my 2 intellectual buddies on this site not a silly sex talker. sex is bad.
    I only said the chill out bit to you.. The paragraph wasn't for you js
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Hey,

    I am in my 20s and still a virgin. I am always being laughed at about being a virgin when it comes up although I try to avoid the question, my closest friends dont care and never bring it up unless the topic of sex comes up then they are like you need to lose you v and occasionally laugh about it, anyways to cut a long story I ended up lying to everyone including my closest friends saying I lost my virginity and I feel really bad. but i finally i never get taken the piss out of anymore but i feel guilty about lying. Is this as bad as I think? would you do the same?

    don't bother about saying you should be happy with the way you are and not to care what others think about being a virgin cause you really cant be happy especially when a girl you start seeing finds out you are a virgin and ends up leaving because they thought it was weird to take a guys virginity(happened a few times with me) I am not bad looking, I think I am ok looking, I use to be depressed back in my teens so sort of missed out on the days when everyone was losing their virginity.

    Also, I am looking to just get a prostitute over summer to just get it over and done with, would you say hiring one is a fair enough reason? are prostitutes legal in the uk idk? and do prostitutes have stds or could i request one to bring evidence of a recent std test?

    lol.....just lol
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    I'm 22 and I lied about 3 years ago regarding being a Virgin (Which I still am). I travel a fair bit on contracts and have a working group of friends and a social group at home. I had enough of being taken the p*ss out off and told my social friends that I got laid on a night out in London at work, made it as detailed as possible. Told my work friends (building trade) that I got laid at home once when they asked me how I "lost" it.

    Problem is now I STILL haven't got laid in the 3 years, no idea how, as I am fairly tall and muscular and have an outstanding sense of humour, making friends is easy but getting a female to be interested is impossible. But this is developing a problem that how I haven't got a girlfriend and why am I not in suit with my friends talking about my latest conquests, and they suspect that I may be a virgin still and have lied.
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    PROBLEM IS, a lot of girls at this age assume you're experienced and know what you're doing. You may be the sweetest, best guy in the world, with a body of a GREEK GOD, if you're in your early 20's and are suspect of being a Virgin, they won't touch you. As well as having all this cute relationship stuff, girls also want a GOOD RATTLING which you'd be under experienced to provide it's the reverse standard, a guy would love a Virgin girl, but a girl never wants a guy who doesn't know what they are doing.

    Ideally they all want someone who had a girlfriend at 16, got AMAZING at sex, broke up with her after 5 years, found them and provided them with amazing sex without having slept with 100 other people.

    Good luck ladies.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Hey,

    I am in my 20s and still a virgin. I am always being laughed at about being a virgin when it comes up although I try to avoid the question, my closest friends dont care and never bring it up unless the topic of sex comes up then they are like you need to lose you v and occasionally laugh about it, anyways to cut a long story I ended up lying to everyone including my closest friends saying I lost my virginity and I feel really bad. but i finally i never get taken the piss out of anymore but i feel guilty about lying. Is this as bad as I think? would you do the same?

    don't bother about saying you should be happy with the way you are and not to care what others think about being a virgin cause you really cant be happy especially when a girl you start seeing finds out you are a virgin and ends up leaving because they thought it was weird to take a guys virginity(happened a few times with me) I am not bad looking, I think I am ok looking, I use to be depressed back in my teens so sort of missed out on the days when everyone was losing their virginity.

    Also, I am looking to just get a prostitute over summer to just get it over and done with, would you say hiring one is a fair enough reason? are prostitutes legal in the uk idk? and do prostitutes have stds or could i request one to bring evidence of a recent std test?

    I'd much rather date a virgin than somebody who has had sex with a prostitute.
 
 
 
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