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    So for the first 5 months all our dates were planned, we only saw each other about once a month. We talked about seeing each other more, but this didn't happen until recently. Over the last three weeks I've seen him three times (about to be 4 if you count tonight). sometimes when we are texting he will randomly suggest going somewhere last minute.


    I can tell that he really likes me (the feeling is mutual) and I find it quite flattering that he wants to see me more. Today I suggested going out since he seems to plan most of the time. I hate last minute plans other than when I go out with him. But at times I think maybe I should play it cool and not always say yes to his last minute plans? Although this may come across as me playing games.

    what are your thoughts?
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    It sounds like you'd definitely be playing games, not just coming across like that. More to the point if as you've said you both mutually really like one another why would you say no, unless you actually are busy/otherwise engaged? Just go with it and enjoy it!
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    (Original post by Jacob Boris)
    It sounds like you'd definitely be playing games, not just coming across like that. More to the point if as you've said you both mutually really like one another why would you say no, unless you actually are busy/otherwise engaged? Just go with it and enjoy it!
    You're right! Thank you
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    5 months is a bit log to be playing those kind of games isn't it?
    Perhaps just say it's more cool when you have more time because you can't always be free?

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    (Original post by Eveiebaby)
    5 months is a bit log to be playing those kind of games isn't it?
    Perhaps just say it's more cool when you have more time because you can't always be free?

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    It wasn't really game playing back then. Our schedules clashed a lot, we could have worked something out but we never got there. I'm not always free,however my social life isn't as jam packed as his. I mean there have been times I've had to reschedule, but most of the time I happen to be free.
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    It doesn't f*cking matter. If you're free, you're free. Roll with it.
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    (Original post by Retired_Messiah)
    It doesn't f*cking matter. If you're free, you're free. Roll with it.
    Lol I love this reply! Thanks
 
 
 
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