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    Okay so I live in halls and did the really stupid thing of sleeping with a flatmate. A few weeks ago I started to really like my flatmate, we're really close and often spoon after nights out and just throughout the day.

    So a few weeks ago we got really stupidly drunk, I told him I liked him and we slept together. The morning after we cuddled, flirted and kissed and then he asked what was going to happen and I wasn't sure so asked him not to say anything and just to ignore "whatever" I said (stupid of me i know!) so we did and it's not awkward but I can't help but wonder if he likes me too. We still spoon after nights out and flirt as we always have. However he's got a little snappy when there's other people around us and has started flirting with and talking about other girls when I'm near (ugh).

    As well as this one of my other flatmates heard us and asked me about it a few days later and said that he thought my flatmate probably felt the same way but wouldn't tell me for definite (they're pretty much best friends). He also said he'd be pissed off if we split up and it would be awkward because we're all living together next year. Help?!

    Make a move. Sounds like you both like each other and an "Oh well" is better than a "what if?"
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