So there's a guy I've been seeing for a couple months. It started with him being very forward, he was the one that wanted to see me all the time, he was the one that wanted to keep things monogamous, that wanted a committed and serious relationship. He said "I love you" first, and kept saying it, even when I didn't say it back.
And then one day I realised I felt the same way about him and things were good. He'd occasionally talk of going to see his ex, and she would cook him dinner and stuff. I thought it was unusual, but didm't really mind. I trusted him.
But then last night he said he'd be lying if he hadn't thought of getting back with his ex. I don't know if he meant this purely sexually, or also emotionally.
Nothing has actually happened, in the sense that he hasn't exactly cheated on me, but I still feel betrayed. Also recently he hasn't told me he loves me, doesn't pay me as much attention, etc.
I just wondered if any of you guys had been in a similar situation, and what you did about it?
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