Am I going mad?Watch
Now this guy is very into vintage cars, which I found really cool, and he is the sort of car geek that likes buying beat up cars and fixing them. Now there is a massive vintage car loving forum and he has a lot of friends through it.
And I used to go to several of them with him because they are often near my house, and we don't see each other very often because he is an hour and a half away and we are both at Uni with Uni budgets. And I tried really hard to get into the world of the vintage car lover, and I am a lot less ignorant than I was.
My issue comes with the fact that his car friends are really unfriendly and often rude and sexist. Which I tried hard to deal with for like a year and a half, but I've now given up, because it just more often than not ends with me crying in the bathroom somewhere, and it makes me miserable.
But this also means I spend less time with him, because he is often there.
Should I ignore my feelings and just go with him to these things, where I feel like the bimbo eye candy?
Or should I not go, not see him, and feel jealous when he is spending more time with them than he is with me?
If you don't tell him about it he wont know then, well after a nearly 3 year relationship i'd be very surprised if he chose the cars over you thats just not gonna happen so dont worry about it