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never had a boyfriend at 18!!

hello. sorry for posting this as an annoymous but just felt i had to!

well basically i'm 18, never had a boyfriend before or kissed a boy before and am starting to feel like i never will get a boyfriend! ahhhhhh help! :frown:

sorry dont know how you can help me but just had to let this of my chest :smile:

dont laugh at me!!

Reply 1

Nix!

11

You're not the only one in this boat, and every other thread seems to be along the same lines recently...

"I'm 20, never had a partner, etc."

Seriously, you're not the only one.

Reply 2

fettucini

1

It's easy enough to get off with some random guy. You're probably just single because you're looking for proper love; that takes ages to find! Wait 'til university :wink:

Reply 3

tldevil

1

ah dnt be silly. you will have someone one day! esp when you go to university, there will be so many new people to meet. and dont worry, like nix said youre not the only one.

Reply 4

Draculara

4

I know a few people who are 19 and have never kissed a guy/girl. honestly, i know it feels like it will never happen, but it will, and hopefully it will be worth the wait!

Reply 5

Annie72

17

Dont panic.........I was 19 before I even kissed a fella.......ok at the time I felt just like you do now, so I can sympathise........but dont be in a rush to get a boyfriend, sometimes they only bring pain and heartache.

Reply 6

Reue

20

Get drunk, go to a club, dont tell all the guys that will grope you to bugger off

Job done

Reply 7

g2da3

11

aww dont worry iam sure there lots of people in the same boat as you and your keeping your self for Mr right :smile:

Reply 8

chan89

1

To be honest, from my experience of boyfriends...sometimes I find myself realising I was actually happier single having never had a boyfriend. It's not always what it's cracked up to be!

Just enjoy being single for the time being and your time will come when you at least expect it (cheesy, but true) :redface:

Reply 9

person 34

9

Instead of getting this troubling issue of your chest, what about getting your top off? Then, you'll get some kind of relationship.

Reply 10

Forgotmytea

10

Anonymous

hello. sorry for posting this as an annoymous but just felt i had to!

well basically i'm 18, never had a boyfriend before or kissed a boy before and am starting to feel like i never will get a boyfriend! ahhhhhh help! :frown:

sorry dont know how you can help me but just had to let this of my chest :smile:

dont laugh at me!!

;console; I'm in exactly the same position, except gender reversal - I'm male, and never had a girlfriend. If you want to talk about anything, feel free to pm me :smile:

So yeah, sorry about that, pretty unhelpful post :redface:

mainly just sympathising :hugs:

-Forgotmytea

Reply 11

angelfeathers

Don't worry, I'm 20 and I've never kissed a guy or done anything else. It's not like I don't like guys but I'm very shy and went to an all girls school my entire life so I don't really know many boys either. Any boys I've ever liked (and there's been about 3 of them and thats it) have never liked me.

I don't like the idea of getting off with a random person in a pub/club, because that's what my friends have encouraged me to do too but I'm not comfortable with the idea at all. I'm seen as a bit of an oddity by my friends and family, but I reckon it'll all just happen when the time is right. But I do think it gets harder as you get older. Chin up, you're definately not the only one! xxx

Reply 12

Anonymous #2

OP - Ditto, and I'm very nearly 19. Like someone else has said, I went to girls schools for my whole education. Now I'm in my first year at uni, I'm getting used to just having guys as friends. You're not alone! :smile:

xox

Reply 13

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chan89

To be honest, from my experience of boyfriends...sometimes I find myself realizing I was actually happier single having never had a boyfriend. It's not always what it's cracked up to be!

Agreed but from a male perspective. Relationships have the tendency to hold you back from what you want to do and then throw it back in your face after you sacrifice so much for the person who thought loved you back. If you find someone great, but at this age alot of people can't handle loyalty and it hurts like hell :frown:

Reply 14

poltroon

You will pine for your innocence in the future, be careful.

Reply 15

chan89

1

Xopa

Agreed but from a male perspective. Relationships have the tendency to hold you back from what you want to do and then throw it back in your face after you sacrifice so much for the person who thought loved you back. If you find someone great, but at this age alot of people can't handle loyalty and it hurts like hell :frown:

Aww ;console; I read that like it was coming out of my own mouth (so to speak)

Basically, to the OP, try not to focus on the negatives, just enjoy being single while you don't have ex's and past bad experiences being in the back of your mind!

Reply 16

Anonymous #3

My bf's 18, I'm his first girlfriend.. really wouldn't worry. Please don't rush into a relationship though just for the sake of having a bf..

Reply 17

pumpkin7

13

you are better off without.. seriously. boys only bring heartache and pain.. so just wait until you can find a proper man who can deal with a serious relationship.

Reply 18

Anonymous #4

pumpkin7

you are better off without.. seriously. boys only bring heartache and pain.. so just wait until you can find a proper man who can deal with a serious relationship.

You're insanely hotttt!!!

Reply 19

paperclip

18

dont rush into relationships
i sure wish i didnt
when the right person comes along it'll be obvious, and worth the wait

never had a boyfriend at 18!!

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