relationships

ok well when im out etc and a girl starts hitting on me etc i will flirt back etc but only to have a good time. when they move in for a kiss i ALWAYS pull back and tell them its not going to happen EVER. i think this is because i can be quite a deep person and i think id be looking for something more than just a random pull. i have never kissed a girl or had a girlfriend. also there is this girl i really like and things started to happen but now we are at different unis and i cant seem to let her go cos she was so perfect. on one hand i feel i should hold out and see wot happens there and if i could get the serious relationship that i really want but on the other hand im 18 and soon i will be the only guy left whos never had a kiss - ppl can advise me not to worry and just go out and get with some random but i would find that really awkward as its not what i want

sorry for the rant i just dont really know what to do

Reply 1

Reue

Dont go out and get a randomer, but also dont cling to sum1 thats gone. Find a nice girl at uni.

Reply 2

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Reue

Dont go out and get a randomer, but also dont cling to sum1 thats gone. Find a nice girl at uni.

i agree
pulling a randomers never the answer
you'll find someone special in uni, get yourself out there

Reply 3

darkos87

is she a girl whose uni is quite far from yours? not to confuse you more, but sometimes when ppl get further apart they realise how much they mean to the other, you know what I mean. You'll definitely find some great girl at uni, but try to keep in touch with your girl and see how the relationship develops, especially when you don't know almost anyone in your uni and you'll need a good support for those few first months!