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I just hate my life at the minute. I have no good luck whatsoever and I am not a bad person. I see people who I know get the good things but they don't deserve it because they are horrible. When will I get good things? Why is it so unfair?
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:party:

Ah it must be your 18th birthday!

welcome to adult life!
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Why aren't you getting what you want? Don't believe in luck, it's easy to take a back seat and wait for what you want if you believe luck is going to dish out good stuff. You have to take responsibility and run your life. Go for it. Make changes.
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(Original post by Anonymous)
I just hate my life at the minute. I have no good luck whatsoever and I am not a bad person. I see people who I know get the good things but they don't deserve it because they are horrible. When will I get good things? Why is it so unfair?
What is it you want?
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(Original post by Dose.of.doge)
What is it you want?
I want to be happy. I want to have what others have. This girl I know is wealthy, has a nice boyfriend, is pretty, has a nice body, is clever and talented andyet she is horrible and wants more. She wants attention all the time and gets it. I get nothing and yet all I do is try to help everyone. I just want something to go right for me.
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(Original post by TheTipsyTarsier)
Why aren't you getting what you want? Don't believe in luck, it's easy to take a back seat and wait for what you want if you believe luck is going to dish out good stuff. You have to take responsibility and run your life. Go for it. Make changes.


Great post. 'Be the change you want to see'
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Anonymous #1
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(Original post by TheTipsyTarsier)
Why aren't you getting what you want? Don't believe in luck, it's easy to take a back seat and wait for what you want if you believe luck is going to dish out good stuff. You have to take responsibility and run your life. Go for it. Make changes.
I try but I get nothing good happen to me. Every decision I make is a bad one.
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I try but I get nothing good happen to me. Every decision I make is a bad one.
Live and learn, my friend. How old are you?
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I want to be happy. I want to have what others have. This girl I know is wealthy, has a nice boyfriend, is pretty, has a nice body, is clever and talented andyet she is horrible and wants more. She wants attention all the time and gets it. I get nothing and yet all I do is try to help everyone. I just want something to go right for me.
Maybe you should concentrate on one thing at a time.
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I try but I get nothing good happen to me. Every decision I make is a bad one.
It's called life :P a lot of people do good things but get nothing back, I've done good things but also get nothing back ^^ I'd love my life to be better than it is and there's loads of things I'd like to change. I'd love to have a lovely gf and just be happy, but you've sometimes need to make do with what you've got and wait for the good things.

It's really quite ****, but it's different for everyone =\
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I want to be happy. I want to have what others have. This girl I know is wealthy, has a nice boyfriend, is pretty, has a nice body, is clever and talented andyet she is horrible and wants more. She wants attention all the time and gets it. I get nothing and yet all I do is try to help everyone. I just want something to go right for me.
I'd be willing to guess that the reason she wants attention all the time is because people wont talk to her because she is horrible, so she gets lonely

I know how you feel when others get what they want through being nasty and your nice to someone and they just forget all about it and the nasty person apologises and for some f'd up reason they now like the nasty person more :rolleyes:

Its hard to find other nice people who appreciate people who are nice
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Life just isn't fair, when you come to terms with it, only then you can build up on it and do something to make yourself feel better.
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(Original post by TheTipsyTarsier)
Live and learn, my friend. How old are you?
I'm 18 and I know I have years left but I'm just at the point where everything is getting too much and there's nothing good happening to make me feel better.
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Honestly things will get better
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I'm 18 and I know I have years left but I'm just at the point where everything is getting too much and there's nothing good happening to make me feel better.
Give me a PM if you feel like talking, anybody else here would say the same. You get depressed at how terrible things are going, but at 18 that's completely normal xD it was for me. I'm 21 and things are only just starting to get better for me.
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I'm 18 and I know I have years left but I'm just at the point where everything is getting too much and there's nothing good happening to make me feel better.
I know. You'll get there. When I was 18 I was miserable as hell too :grumble: In a controlling horrible relationship and in a dead end job. You just need to turn it around. My life then and my life now seem like two completely opposite stories, and it'll be the same for you. Just make good choices and do what makes you happy.
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It's called life :P a lot of people do good things but get nothing back, I've done good things but also get nothing back ^^ I'd love my life to be better than it is and there's loads of things I'd like to change. I'd love to have a lovely gf and just be happy, but you've sometimes need to make do with what you've got and wait for the good things.

It's really quite ****, but it's different for everyone =\
But what's the point if there's nothing going right? I hate feeling like this cause it gets on everyone's nerves but I just don't know how to progress. Thanks for replying though and thanks to everyone else too.
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(Original post by TheTipsyTarsier)
I know. You'll get there. When I was 18 I was miserable as hell too :grumble: In a controlling horrible relationship and in a dead end job. You just need to turn it around. My life then and my life now seem like two completely opposite stories, and it'll be the same for you. Just make good choices and do what makes you happy.
I'm sorry to hear that. Thanks for your reply, I guess I just have to do more waiting.
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The point is that most people's life at 18 is a mixed bag of feelings, I'm 21 and things are only just starting to take off for me. So you just have to make do with what you've got for now and enjoy the little things, it really will get better
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The point is that most people's life at 18 is a mixed bag of feelings, I'm 21 and things are only just starting to take off for me. So you just have to make do with what you've got for now and enjoy the little things, it really will get better
im 23 and thinks haven't kicked off yet

i'll just put it down to being a late bloomer...ye.. thats it... :lol:
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