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Sisters boyfriend - overfriendly?

So my sister has been seeing her boyfriend for nearly a year. He texts/facebooks me quite often, starting off with an innocent 'how are you?' etc, but then posting a picture of some trousers saying my bum would look nice in them and saying im hot/beautiful and 'are you seeing any guys at the moment?'. There was also an incident last year where he was drunk and was touching my leg. He also is always buying me presents. I don't know if im being over-dramatic but he makes me feel uncomfortable and ive had to warn him a few times that im his girlfriends sister etc. in reply, he has just said he is a 'flirty person'.
Ive stopped replying to any texts of his but obviously this makes it awkward when he comes over. I really don't want my good relationship with my sister to be ruined by this. I don't encourage him at all but im starting to find him creepy and when mentioned to my family they say im being dramatic and not to be silly. What should I do?

Thanks in advance

Reply 1

SaucissonSecCy

I surprised your family react that way if you've told them those exact details. Very surprised.

Reply 2

Anonymous #2

Have you spoken to your sister about this?
I would just carrying on what you are doing by ignoring any inappropriate texts and if he continues to cross the boundary I would show the messages to your sister.
You could tell a story and say you have a bf, which would then cause him to back off and get your sister to go along with it. Although its not the truth he may start to realise that you clearly have no interest In him at all!

Reply 3

Damien_Dalgaard

Don't you have a level exams to study for ffs.

Face it you are playing the field.

Spoiler

Reply 4

william walker

Have you explain to him that you find it awkward the way he is acting around you and sending you messages?

Reply 5

Shakz

He wants to cream-pie all over you

Reply 6

hdindak

Original post by Damien_Dalgaard

Don't you have a level exams to study for ffs.

Face it you are playing the field.

Spoiler

im sorry what exactly..
what an idiot lol

Reply 7

william walker

Original post by Shakz

He wants to cream-pie all over you

Oh dear. Maybe not all over. Just in one specific area. :sexface:

:hump2:

Reply 8

James222

Let him hit it and quit it

Reply 9

Crystalz

Original post by Damien_Dalgaard

Don't you have a level exams to study for ffs.

Face it you are playing the field.

Spoiler

You're the reason negs should be brought back mate.

OP that seems incredibly uncomfortable, i don't know how you will be able to tell your sister without her getting offended. I think you may need to start being harsher with him them and threaten to expose convos etc

Reply 10

Anonymous #3

Honestly, I think if you fancy him you should seduce him, the sexual tension would be unbelievable in this situation. Then it would be cathartic and you would be rid of the desire, and just be friends.