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Are you picky when it comes to finding a partner? :)

I seem to think that I am as well. I mean, I don't tend to go for the absolute stunners but there is a certain look that I do tend to look out for. In terms of personality, I'm probably looking for someone who is somewhat different to myself, but not a total opposite!

Disregarding the fact that I'm a goof when talking to most women, I've never found anyone that has 'wowed' me as such! Anyone else like that?

:tsr2:

Reply 1

slackerbeeatch

I'm picky. And I have a really bad habit of seeing someone for a few weeks and then finding something about them that REALLY annoys me so i finish it. I''m just too hard to please

Reply 2

RL99

Yeah so am I, I seem to have a list as long as my arm when it comes to what I'm looking for in a girl, and it seems every girl who I would potentially be interested in is taken already. Either that, or they don't fancy me back.
Being an Engineering Student surrounded my men all the time doesn't help... :mad:

But still, I seem to have worked out now that I'd rather be on my own than settle for just anybody!

Reply 3

Ili

I might be. *furrows eyebrows* Not sure...

Reply 4

Radiance

Hmm depends really. I m not tht picky and choosy but the person should know how to behave himself >_> more than anything else!

Reply 5

Profesh

I wasn't; but I am now.

Reply 6

Radiance

Congrats >_>

Reply 7

Spent

RL99

Being an Engineering Student surrounded my men all the time doesn't help... :mad:

I feel your anguish, I'm a computer science student and over 90% of lectures consist of guys. Who said stereotypes are false :tongue:

I'd have to go for picky. It's the same with everything (picking clothes, decisions and even what to eat :\ ) so it's fairly normal for me.

Reply 8

Radiance

Uh, okay now I didnt mean by my post tht I would date just anyone. It has to be someone of my calibre, or higher. In a sense tht he doesnt goof around. Thank you

Reply 9

Ili

Spent

I feel your anguish, I'm a computer science student and over 90% of lectures consist of guys. Who said stereotypes are false :tongue:

I'd have to go for picky. It's the same with everything (picking clothes, decisions and even what to eat :\ ) so it's fairly normal for me.

oOo I hear competition. :p:

But who says you need to look for girls only in your course? Search farrrr and wiiiide. :biggrin:

Reply 10

L i b

theonehitwonder

I seem to think that I am as well. I mean, I don't tend to go for the absolute stunners but there is a certain look that I do tend to look out for.

I agree with that. And yes, I am picky. Far, far too picky.

Hence no meaningful relationships in over two years.

Reply 11

Misogynist

I'm not picky, but the person must have a couple of traits. I don't care how else they are, the more different they are to me the better.

Reply 12

lamenter

I'm picky but not a lot. No emos and nobody that is extremely ugly. I'm fine with girls that are ok.

Reply 13

Sithius

slackerbeeatch

I'm picky. And I have a really bad habit of seeing someone for a few weeks and then finding something about them that REALLY annoys me so i finish it. I''m just too hard to please

Your attitude is crap, so good to hear you have trouble finding a bloke. :smile:

Reply 14

slackerbeeatch

Sithius

Your attitude is crap, so good to hear you have trouble finding a bloke. :smile:

How is my attitude more crap than anyone else's?!

I don't have trouble finding a bloke... I just don't stick with them very long :p:

Reply 15

Sithius

slackerbeeatch

How is my attitude more crap than anyone else's?!

I don't have trouble finding a bloke... I just don't stick with them very long :p:

Because a majority of girls (atleast I hope) wouldn't dump someone for 1 thing they find 'annoying'.

Reply 16

slackerbeeatch

RL99

I seem to have worked out now that I'd rather be on my own than settle for just anybody!

I do agree with this. Which is why, I think, I tend to end things as soon as I get annoyed rather than wait and see if it gets better

Reply 17

slackerbeeatch

Sithius

Because a majority of girls (atleast I hope) wouldn't dump someone for 1 thing they find 'annoying'.

Ah. I see.

I mean annoying as in personality wise not as in a small thing they do. ie can't really ask them to change so i let go.

Reply 18

40550

I have to like them in that way, and thats it

Reply 19

Louenn

I don't go on appearance, but I have to know someone quite well to be attracted to them. However, all the chaps I've ever been out with have ended up being clingy depressed types and that's not good, and so I've ended it because I can't cope with it. The last b/f got dumped because less than a month into it he told me he loved me, and we didn't know each other particularly well, and I freaked. He then couldn't see that I felt that was too fast, and it's still a bit awkward when I see him now.

So yeah, I'm a bit picky, although I think perhaps I could be more picky.

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