Am i right to feel like this??Watch
Weve tried seeing each other since once a month but we haven't seen for a few months now. We couldn't spend our anniversary or valentines together. Also as she is a very stresfull person since exams she has literally pushed me away and we haven't spoken properly for 2 months now. On this time there was another guy who was at her uni and was giving her all the attention and support she needed while she was down. Although nothing further happened between them its just frustrating that i couldnt be with that guy.
Also secondly i dont think we are both on the same level intimacy wise. If someone is in long distance relationship then the only way to connect intimately is via phone or skype ( even that she doesnt like much of) Even in person she is very reserved to do most things which in this time a couple should be comfortable doing.
Thirdly we have different long term goals. She wants to get married and have kids early and I want to study further and get settled. So i dont know whether she will be prepared to wait that long.
So bearing all these things in mind, i think i wont be able to handle another year of long distance and ive gone past the point of it affecting me too much even if it does end. Obv a guy has needs and I would rather not something i would regret while im still with her.
What should i do??
Is there someone else?
well you guys either compromise to try n get along with each other or if you truly love her than change yourself a little bit to suit her! but if that's too much of a struggle than its best to end it! x long distance is NOT EASY!
Will you be seeing each other this summer after exams? It sounds like you all need a long and very real discussion. She is waving red flags. I think she is disconnecting from you emotionally. If you want to be in a loving, cuddly, there for each other relationship it doesn't sound like you're gonna find that with this girl.
Well its a bit strange that i have to change my perception in a relationship. Why does it not apply to her. A relationship is ideally give and take and both have to compromise a little