Advice..

Ok, I went out last night to student night and met this guy. He's 22 and lives about 15 minutes from the Uni campus.

We kissed and then talked a lot. Before I left he asked for my number and gave me his. Then he kissed me again and asked if we'd see each other again? I said "Yeah". He said "You're saying yes and I've not even texted you yet. Don't go changing your mind when I do"

I said I wouldn't. He kissed me again and then he told me he had no credit.

I texted him late this morning saying "Hey, how's you? Hope you're feeling better than I am. lol. If you're still up for meeting up sometime just let me know. Have a good day. X"

ok, now I'm thinking maybe I shouldn't have texted him. That won't scare him off will it? Me texting him first? I just didn't want to leave it too long and have him get the idea that I wasn't interested. I know he works full time so he probably won't get the message till late. Just advice, was it ok to text him? Or should I have waited for him?

I feel like I'm 14 again. lol.

Reply 1

bunthulhu

He said he would text you so you probably should have waited, but I doubt it's the end of the world.

Reply 2

Sazarina88

What you said in your text seems fine. It's not as though you declared your undying love for him or anything like that :smile:

Reply 3

The J-Man

Nah i think yur fine... It's quite refreshing to see a girl making the first move. I am sure it wont matter at all. He might even be a little relieved....

Reply 4

Trigger

Studying Psychology at Chester University. :rofl:

lol you should know :p:

Reply 5

Jillie Boe

Ah thank you peeps.

:biggrin:

And that ^^ made me giggle.

Reply 6

Danny_777

OMG you texted him!!! Wtf!?!? He'll think you want to marry him!!!! And have babies! Ooh, he's gonna run away, obviously.

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Yeah, sorry. Actually, I think that's quite sweet of you! I'd love to have a girl make the first move; really does it for me lol! If he's worth it, he'll text ya back or sumn.

Reply 7

Nix!

Ball's in his court now :smile:

and yes, it is refreshing to see a girl doing the work :p:

If anything, I can imagine it making him happy that you've texted first as he did make a point about you wanted to see him again.

Good luck.

Reply 8

mangomaz

Well he said he has no credit and the text you sent was pretty 'cool' so don't stress over it! Just wait and see what happens its always good to have a bit of fun :smile: