Two attempts, one year apart, wasn't really motivated to keep going after the first fail because the lessons were effort to get to, I moved house and the instructor didn't wanna cover it, so I had to keep bussing it over + walking which took ages and wore me out before I'd even get behind the wheel of a car. Failed for so many reasons (I still have the record of it in my shelves as a constant reminder to how far I've come, but to summarize, almost rear-ended a van, dangerous overtake, too close to parked cars being the three faults, 2 serious 1 dangerous). Passed it 2nd time almost 3 weeks ago (Christ can't believe I've already been riding solo that long) and I feel all the better for failing the first time. Because I must have sucked hard and even if I somehow winged a pass that day I'd have definitely totalled a car by now.
My instructor was amazing; but part of the motivation was the past year of bussing it into work (I've always bussed it to/from work; but I've only recently noticed how much it sucks) in crowded busses full of people pushing and shoving stinking of sweat in the summer or freezing at a bus stop in the winter; I couldn't take it anymore. A certain large Airline catering company is next to where I work; their shifts are in line with ours so you could bet your arse that at the end of every shift; they'd be lining up the entire road where the bus stop is on and then the stampede begins when a bus eventually arrives. Plus most of them are Indians and they're used to the concept of if you don't push, shove, pinch and force your way into the bus via the back doors; you aren't travelling home (I'm half Indian, so I know the state of public transport in India from my Dad); I am way too tired at the end of the shift to fight back and used to take longer bus routes just to avoid them. Also, it used to take me an hour to get to work (or from it). It now takes 8 minutes. That isn't me driving like a bell-end, that is because of the bus route vs direct route.