looks aren't good enough!

The world is an unfair place. Accept that fact and your soul will be at peace.

Maybe you shouldnt just assume you should b able to get all of these girls? Not everyone finds their soul mate at uni.

maybe just meeting the wrong types of girls.

anyways, knd of randomly but just of interest, wats Nirankari? is that like guru-d-sikh and matta-d-sikh (no idea how to spell them)

Stop searching for a girlfriend, just carry on your everyday life, be friendly with girls if you meet them. Men who make it too obvious they are intrested in you can be off putting, and may come across as desperate.

The world is an unfair place. Accept that fact and your soul will be at peace.

im 19 now and i have been in good relationships before i came to uni this year. Except for my last one as my ex cheated on me .i have been told i have really good personality by people that really know me. however i came to london and i be honest, i haven't been lucky with the ladies. i have been myself like always but i have been unsuccessful. i come to the conclusion that i am not good-looking and just probably average. i am kind of giving up on looking for a girl to have a relationship with, i am starting to feel that i should stay single. at the end of the day i just do not want to get upset about it, but i am starting to get a little depressed.

I know the world is an unfair place, it still doesn't help me cope with a lower self-confidence.

Yes it does, you'll know that everything is probable to fail than succeed and you'll approach things with a new born confidence and you won't hit yourself hard when things go wrong.

Oh, quit moaning. As long as you don't look like the elephant man you should be fine.

Hmmm..... i guess so, i hope i find that confidence.



i am only speaking the truth dude, i am not moaning.

Oh alright sorry. Anyway I was just trying to say that you should probably get into a new relationship as long as you perservere and have a bit of confidence in yourself.

Sometimes I just can't understand why normal looking people feel sorry for themselves when there are so many people out there who would trade places with them any day (like people who have REAL problems with their appearance. Like this girl....


http://www.bbc.co.uk/ouch/tvradio/wsa/vicky.shtml



Now can you imagine what she goes through everyday? And guess what - she had a bf!! So if she can get somebody why can't you? Anyway I'm sure you'll be okay ;-)

Oh alright sorry. Anyway I was just trying to say that you should probably get into a new relationship as long as you perservere and have a bit of confidence in yourself.

Sometimes I just can't understand why normal looking people feel sorry for themselves when there are so many people out there who would trade places with them any day (like people who have REAL problems with their appearance. Like this girl....


http://www.bbc.co.uk/ouch/tvradio/wsa/vicky.shtml



Now can you imagine what she goes through everyday? And guess what - she had a bf!! So if she can get somebody why can't you? Anyway I'm sure you'll be okay ;-)

im 19 now and i have been in good relationships before i came to uni this year. Except for my last one as my ex cheated on me .i have been told i have really good personality by people that really know me. however i came to london and i be honest, i haven't been lucky with the ladies. i have been myself like always but i have been unsuccessful. i come to the conclusion that i am not good-looking and just probably average. i am kind of giving up on looking for a girl to have a relationship with, i am starting to feel that i should stay single. at the end of the day i just do not want to get upset about it, but i am starting to get a little depressed.