looks aren't good enough!

im 19 now and i have been in good relationships before i came to uni this year. Except for my last one as my ex cheated on me .i have been told i have really good personality by people that really know me. however i came to london and i be honest, i haven't been lucky with the ladies. i have been myself like always but i have been unsuccessful. i come to the conclusion that i am not good-looking and just probably average. i am kind of giving up on looking for a girl to have a relationship with, i am starting to feel that i should stay single. at the end of the day i just do not want to get upset about it, but i am starting to get a little depressed.

you are right mate. it's all about looks and height. i have neither, so i hear you loud and clear my South Asian friend.

PS - the above poster is right.

Have you considered plastic surgery?

Seriously, i didn't have a boyfriend until i was 18. I thought that something must be wrong with me, mostly that i looked hideous must be uncomprehendably mean or something. I really couldn't figure out what was wrong with me. All this just resulted in that i didn't even care about it eventually. I thought that it must be faith, i was meant to be lonely my whole life and nothing i could do about it. Almost as soon as i had decided not to be bothered with it any longer, since it just made me feel really down and bad about myself, i found someone. I do believe that "when you least expect it" actually is how it many times works.

With all this rambling of mine i just want to have said that 1. a few months of being alone is nothing to a few years. 2. stop trying so hard cause it will only come back to you as broken down confidence and 3. i am sure you will find someone. even i did ... eventually

noted down the response!

You don't look bad, but you don't look honest, which most girls are looking for. I personally have the same problem, so I cover it up by personality.

You don't look bad, but you don't look honest, which most girls are looking for. I personally have the same problem, so I cover it up by personality.

i am an honest person, i don't lie to people, i tell them my feelings straight. i did like his comment and i mentally noted it, i wasn't being dishonest at all.

I'm not talking about honesty personality wise, I'm talking about looking honest. To look honest you need wide, open eyes and a welcoming bright face. What me and you have in common are the small eyes.

Its not all about the eyes though you know... a smile says a thousand things!

Well look at my smile, It says one thing and that's 'I'm dishonest'. Go on, look. Profile. You'll see what I mean.

No here looking for sympathy? then what exactly did you post for? I cant seem to find a question or request fior help within any of that post.