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looks aren't good enough!

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Reply 60

singh1987
my smile is nice when you actually see me proeprly smile. that is my photo smile lol. but i find the strength of my looks in my eyes. i adore my eyes! and im starting to regain some of the lost confidence!


There you go, told you it weren't that hard!:biggrin:

Reply 61

singh1987
my smile is nice when you actually see me proeprly smile. that is my photo smile lol. but i find the strength of my looks in my eyes. i adore my eyes! and im starting to regain some of the lost confidence!


Killing your ego would be a good thing to do aswell.

Reply 62

singh1987
im 19 now and i have been in good relationships before i came to uni this year. Except for my last one as my ex cheated on me .i have been told i have really good personality by people that really know me. however i came to london and i be honest, i haven't been lucky with the ladies. i have been myself like always but i have been unsuccessful. i come to the conclusion that i am not good-looking and just probably average. i am kind of giving up on looking for a girl to have a relationship with, i am starting to feel that i should stay single. at the end of the day i just do not want to get upset about it, but i am starting to get a little depressed.


i say maybe yyou might be aiming to high when you look for girls or maybe all the girls your trying to get all have mans or they are just not ready for a male in their life...iu hoped that helped :smile:

Reply 63

singh1987
im 19 now and i have been in good relationships before i came to uni this year. Except for my last one as my ex cheated on me .i have been told i have really good personality by people that really know me. however i came to london and i be honest, i haven't been lucky with the ladies. i have been myself like always but i have been unsuccessful. i come to the conclusion that i am not good-looking and just probably average. i am kind of giving up on looking for a girl to have a relationship with, i am starting to feel that i should stay single. at the end of the day i just do not want to get upset about it, but i am starting to get a little depressed.


Don't worry :smile: And don't go "looking for a girl to have a relationship with". Looks aren't really that important. People radiate a different kind of beauty (if that makes sense).

Reply 64

Looks actually do matter, alot. Personality is a supplement, and a necessity, but only during the later stages of a relationship. You're having problems with the beginning.

Reply 65

Nisherz187
There you go, told you it weren't that hard!:biggrin:


lol, you all have helped me otherwise i will still be a sad git lol!!!! and why what do you mean killing my ego, you crazy guy!!! shouldn't it be good to have a little ego. but honestly i do love my eyes.

g3da3 and lucia you have been giving excellent advice and it is helping me.

Reply 66

Your new profile pic is much better, imho! Makes you look much less posey :biggrin:

And you seem a nice individual, if a little vain, and people will warm to you for that. And what's a bit of vain-ness? Everyone's a little vain.

Reply 67

singh1987
g3da3 and lucia you have been giving excellent advice and it is helping me.


No worries :smile: I'm glad I could help. You'll be fine...

oh I do think that Why has a point :wink:

Reply 68

Lucia.
No worries :smile: I'm glad I could help. You'll be fine...

oh I do think that Why has a point :wink:

Yeh i know, he knows im joking with him, he a kool guy!!!

Reply 69

Ywiss
Your new profile pic is much better, imho! Makes you look much less posey :biggrin:

And you seem a nice individual, if a little vain, and people will warm to you for that. And what's a bit of vain-ness? Everyone's a little vain.


Thankyou very much!!!!!!!!!!

Reply 70

Sorry OP - off topic but...

Why - do you think you're a pessmistic guy?

Reply 71

Synergetic
Sorry OP - off topic but...

Why - do you think you're a pessmistic guy?


Well, I'm certainly not optimistic, but I don't follow the general concepts a pessimist would.

I am more of an existentialist, and I follow the philosophical belief that everything is more likely to fail than succeed.

Reply 72

Why
Well, I'm certainly not optimistic, but I don't follow the general concepts a pessimist would.

I am more of an existentialist, and I follow the philosophical belief that everything is more likely to fail than succeed.


Does that mean you don't really aim high? That you're not ambitious as you fear the prospect of failure? :smile:

Reply 73

Why
Well, I'm certainly not optimistic, but I don't follow the general concepts a pessimist would.

I am more of an existentialist, and I follow the philosophical belief that everything is more likely to fail than succeed.


positivity helps positive things come you way! In the words of Rahul Singh on 16/01/07 at 22:11(according to my mobile)

Reply 74

Synergetic
Does that mean you don't really aim high? That you're not ambitious as you fear the prospect of failure? :smile:


No, It doesn't effect anything but the result of something I or anyone else does. If you carry that belief if something fails you'll accept it as fact rather than kicking yourself.

It's not negative in the least. If you believe everything you do will turn out great and dandy, and it doesn't, you'll be sad. That's negative.

Reply 75

Why
No, It doesn't effect anything but the result of something I or anyone else does. If you carry that belief if something fails you'll accept it as fact rather than kicking yourself.

It's not negative in the least. If you believe everything you do will turn out great and dandy, and it doesn't, you'll be sad. That's negative.


Ah right - I see. That's a good train of thought :yy:

I'll try to think that way, but I probably won't be able to :wink:

Reply 76

Why-have you done psychology by any chance?

Reply 77

singh1987
Why-have you done psychology by any chance?


Philosophy and psychology are a big part of my life and I've read many many books on them. I haven't studied it as an academic subject, because you don't appreciate what it actually means then. You'll do it for the sake of doing it.

I'm very interested in knowing more about myself. I believe that no-one really knows who they are or what they are truly like.

Like Oscar Wilde once said:

'Most people are other people. Their thoughts are someone else's opinions, their lives a mimicry, their passions a quotation.'

And

'Man is least himself when he talks in his own person. Give him a mask, and he will tell you the truth.'

Reply 78

Yo totally agree with you there brother!!! your help has definately helped me and you have been there since the start init! it good that you actually don't lose hope easily. plus remember our eyes shows that were are no honest lol!!!!

Reply 79

Why
I'm very interested in knowing more about myself. I believe that no-one really knows who they are or what they are truly like.

Like Oscar Wilde once said:

'Most people are other people. Their thoughts are someone else's opinions, their lives a mimicry, their passions a quotation.'

And

'Man is least himself when he talks in his own person. Give him a mask, and he will tell you the truth.'


Wow. That is really quite intriguing. :smile: