looks aren't good enough!

im 19 now and i have been in good relationships before i came to uni this year. Except for my last one as my ex cheated on me .i have been told i have really good personality by people that really know me. however i came to london and i be honest, i haven't been lucky with the ladies. i have been myself like always but i have been unsuccessful. i come to the conclusion that i am not good-looking and just probably average. i am kind of giving up on looking for a girl to have a relationship with, i am starting to feel that i should stay single. at the end of the day i just do not want to get upset about it, but i am starting to get a little depressed.

Juding by your picture I can see why you are not getting any attention, not meaning to sound rude but I think you need to slim down and stop wearing hoodys- looks like you think you are a rudeboy or something.

I'm very interested in knowing more about myself. I believe that no-one really knows who they are or what they are truly like.

Like Oscar Wilde once said:

'Most people are other people. Their thoughts are someone else's opinions, their lives a mimicry, their passions a quotation.'

Wow. That is really quite intriguing.

you are right mate. it's all about looks and height. i have neither, so i hear you loud and clear my South Asian friend.

PS - the above poster is right.

I think that's true...I think the quest for self is the only thing worth pursuing; everything else is secondary. People that tell you they don't think about such things are liars. And we need more existentialists in the world - maybe then people will think for themselves!


And hot . Why, you really don't looks dishonest - though the OP does, sorry.

Yeah the pic is a bit "emo". Gotta say don't go looking for relationships just chill out and if someone comes along then cool it happens, it happened to me after being single for 2 and a half years and im engaged now. Trust me if you're looking too hard for love/relationships you aint gonna find it.

im 19 now and i have been in good relationships before i came to uni this year. Except for my last one as my ex cheated on me .i have been told i have really good personality by people that really know me. however i came to london and i be honest, i haven't been lucky with the ladies. i have been myself like always but i have been unsuccessful. i come to the conclusion that i am not good-looking and just probably average. i am kind of giving up on looking for a girl to have a relationship with, i am starting to feel that i should stay single. at the end of the day i just do not want to get upset about it, but i am starting to get a little depressed.